I have a unique situation. I am a 48 year old woman and I masturbate daily with fingers and/or toys. I've had orgasms with lovers, both men and women and of course have multiple orgasms with my toys. So what's the issue? After a 20 year marriage that is ending I currently have a lover who is the most intense, fiery, capable, skilled, giving person I have ever been with. I'm not having your "typical" orgasms with him. The minute he touches me I feel as if my entire body is electrified and it continues during sex. I can't explain what happens, but it's as if my entire body is having an orgasm, even after our encounters are over. I do not feel empty or like I am missing anything at all. I am 5'2 and he is 6'4 (and 8 years younger than me!). We enjoy each other immensely. We play with toys, engage in bondage and I strip, do lap dances and dress up for him. This is refreshing and wonderful. I've done some research and some women apparently get off more on the intensity than the orgasm. This has never happened to me before. Has anyone out there had a similar experience?