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No one knows this, not even my husband. If I ever get sick of him, I can tell him this and he'll just drop dead from disgust. I can actually laugh about it now since it has been a while. Here goes. About a year ago, my mom was clearing some things out of her closet and told me that she had found a video of my high school graduation. I went to get it one afternoon while she was at work. She said it was on her dresser along with some other things. It wasn't there. I called her and she said it was in a yellow kodac sleeve. There was one on the floor beside the tv. I took it and left. I was so excited, I had to go buy a vcr. I got home and popped it in. The first thing I see is a woman lying on the bed, spread eagle, masturbating. I didn't see her face. I'm thinking, wtf is this fat woman doing in a porn? Then I hear a man saying "is your hot, wet pussy ready for this monster dick?" (Oh God I will never forget those words!) There's something oddly familiar about the voice. Just then, the woman sits up and it is MY MOTHER!!!!! I saw my dad's old naked butt run to the bed and I turned it off. Ok, I know that they do it. Well, in my mind the last time they did it was when my mom got pregnant with my brother. I NEVER wanted to think they were a little kinky and NEVER wanted to see it. Now that the temporary blindness has gone away, I find it funny. All of my dirty little secrets are coming out on this board!
That is just too funny! But it must be reassuring to know that you parents are still enjoying sex and keeping it fun. My son and his wife have split, and one thing that I guessed at is that they were not having sex, I could tell by the way my daughter-in-law acted around him, and I even guessed how long it had been. They had only been married two years (this wasn't the cause of their split, but a symptom of the problem). My son was amazed that mom was so savvy. Then I told him that wasn't right for any couple, much less one so young, even with children (she's been married before) and reminded him of how many times they would find our bedroom door shut and locked when they were younger. He laughed and said, "Oh, yes, I remember." Then I told him that at our age we still had sex quite often. His first reaction was "TMI--I did NOT need to know that!" But then he stopped, and said, "No, I did need to know that. I think that is great and a good thing to know about the two of you."
Did you mom know you had picked up the wrong video?
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I used the pill for eight years in a row, the mini-pill (after our dd was born and I was nursing) for a year, and the regular pill for another year without getting pregnant. However, I'm really a routine-oriented girl, so I probably only missed three or four pills in that entire time. If you really don't trust it though, by all means, use something else--even if it's only for psychological protection. It took my husband a long time to really trust the pill. One of the drawbacks I found to using the pill was that it seemed like it really took its toll on my libido. Because I was on it for so long I really didn't notice until I quit taking it in order to get pregnant. That probably won't happen to you, but you might want to watch for it, just in case.
If you use any herbal medications, St. John's Wort can also effect the performace of BC pills.
I was on the pill off and on most of my adult life (off to have children and nurse), and it was great not having to worry. However, I too found it affected my libido. I was much less interested in sex. I went off the pill a couple years back, as I was starting through menopause, and felt I needed to give my body back to nature. The libido does come back!
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I finished my Associate's Degree in Business Sunday. Had a 3.85 gpa before going into my last two classes, have an A in one, and waiting on the grade on my final paper on the other, but it should be an A, also.
I didn't have the opportunity to go to college after high school, left home and went right into the job market as a legal secretary, then got married, had kids, got them through college, got my husband through college and said IT'S MY TURN NOW!
I'm taking a break but will start my Bachelor's Degree in January.
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Are ya KIDDING!?! David Caruso?
I really like David Caruso, but not sexually, and I'll tell you why. He looks like my father did when he was younger (he's passed now), so I can appreciate his acting, and that twinkle in his eye (like my father's too), but I can't see it sexaully. My dad even had the red hair and same skin coloring.
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My first kiss was in 8th grade, but it was little more than a quick kiss. The first kiss that curled my toes and let me know I was female was with the same guy who was my other first (the topic we were responding to a few days ago). It would have been 9th grade and I was 14, and it was in a secluded spot outside at school. For being so young, he sure was talented!
Oi, now you KNOW I can't remember back THAT far!!
Although, sitting here thinking back as much as I can is giving me a big smile. *sings* Thaaaanks, for the memories... Hehe.Also, I wanted to let you know you've been coming up with some GREAT questions for us to contemplate!
Fun fun! I have to agree with Valntyn, your questions have brought up some great memories, and I have enjoyed the chance of sharing some of these things, some I have only shared with my husband. Keep the questions coming!
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For me it is Matthew McConaughey.
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I've never been able to grow long nails, and it is something I absolutely love. I have tried fake nails, but they just don't work for me--maybe because I'm not used to them. But I do keep my nails neatly manicured, and have found a really good strengthener--Nailtiques--that is helping get them a little longer and I also take hair/skin/nail vitamins, calcium and gelatin. That is one of my splurges--manicures and pedicures. In the summer when I'm wearing sandals I always have something special done to my toenails (flowers, etc.) but I don't go with that expense in the winter when they are covered up.
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Do you belly dance, or did you just have the costume. I love it!
Mine was the belly dancer. I have the authentic stuff. It's quite erotic. -
Contratulations on the weight loss. I've lost 31 pounds now, two dress sizes, so I know how much hard work is involved.
I don't think you are vain at all. I remember in the old days (before I gained all my excess weight) I enjoyed looking at myself in the mirror. Once I started gaining, I started avoiding mirrors.
And I plan to get my belly button pierced when I loose a bit more. If you have noticed in posts and my avatar, I have been taking belly dancing classes for a year now and really love it. When I get to the point of performing, and get my first costume, I want my belly button pierced for that. I'm hoping another year of practice and working out (I work out about 7 hours a week at the gym, plus walk). To that point, I'm using cream to diminish stretch marks, as I've had three kids, too (smallest was 8 lbs, 8 1/2 oz) and have plenty of them. My husband says they are a badge of honor, but I still want them to go away.
If you have more to lose, good luck. PM me if you do and ever need encouragement. I know I can use all I can get, but have a great support group with my family and friends.
I recently lost 40lbs, so I think part of my excitement has to do with that, I just feel really great about what I've accomplished and I admire the fuits of my labor (so to speak)! I just get excited looking at this body that I never thought I'd ever have. And as an admirer of the female body, I've always had a thing for tummy's, flatter, more toned ones (not that a woman with curves isn't attractive) it's just something I like. So looking at my tummy, which is pretty flat (of course not completely, I have had 3 kids, but I've gotten really good at holding it in, it's just happens naturally now) just excites me, I love the way it looks, and I got my belly button pierced to celebrate my weight loss and I've always thought that was really hot on woman too.Does this make me a vain person???
Because honestly I've always considered myself to be pretty average in every way, and now I just have a little higher opinion of my body (not that it's perfect), but still think the rest of me is average. Oh well, as long as I"m sexy to me and to my husband that's all that really matters right!?Don't feel that way. Our flaws are what give us character. Even models aren't perfect.
Not even close. I look at myself and only see the flaws. My husband always tells me I look great. Other people do as well. I don't feel that way though. Even when I was a size 2, I still saw the flaws. I know I don't look as bad as I feel, but it is what it is. It's just one of those things that I have to overcome. -
My husband's brother-in-law has hit on me before, but as far as his friends, they were all too loyal of friends to him for that. Now, have I ever had the hots for any of his friends....but that was just appreciation of the male body and I never did anything about it either. I loved my husband way too much for that, but a girl can't help but look. And no, I never got mad when my husband looked at other women. I feel it is natural. Just look but don't touch!
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I was 15 and it was with a boy a year older than me that I had gone with for a year. We really just had a school yard/bus romance, as my parents never allowed me to date. We used to sit in the back seat of the school bus (he didn't live close but knew the bus driver and would ride the bus with me to spend more time with me) and we'd throw a coat over my lap and he would finger me until I came, often twice. Because of my love (and yes, it was love) of Tom, my parents made me change schools the next year. If they had let it go, chances are it would have burned itself out, or we would have gone on and gotten married out of high school. As it was, I started skipping school with him. He loved me so passionately, he was wanting to wait until we got married and was content with heavy petting and masturbation, it was me that pushed the issue. I still remember the exact day. I can't remember where we were (whose house) but I remember the day well. It was a wonderful experience. The next time I skipped I got caught and my parents really did put an end to the relationship then. I never got to see him again, but still think of him often and appreciate the passion he brought out in me, and the knowledge that sex is a beautiful thing. I have done some e-mail searches to try and find him, and located the brother of the girl he eventually married on Classmates.com, but he never e-mailed me back. I'd love to touch base with him again, but not bad enough to pay for a search. But he still has a warm spot in my heart.
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I have this clitoral pump: http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4467
I found that inside the pump, just behind the removeable/changeable cap (for lack of better terminology) there is a small piece of cotton like material. I removed it, saving it in case it was supposed to be in there, and found out that I get much more suction. I have had much better results with the suction on it now.
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I work out--three times a week for about 2 1/2 hours each day (cardio and strength). I take belly dancing classes twice a week, and am trying my hand (feet?) at line dancing through an instructional DVD. I walk with my husband (he is disabled, but still enjoys walking) and dogs--speaking of which, I love Belgian Malinois; they are THE BEST!!! We have two.
I am about to get my Associate's Degree in Business (never got to go to college when I graduated high school; long story) so that keeps me busy, too.
Aside from that, I love to cook, and am working on typing up all my recipes. I also enjoy sewing, cross stitching, reading (mostly mysteries and some sci-fi), and watching movies with my husband. My one hobby I wish I could get over--video games. I am a PC game junkie!
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Husband's tongue for sure. Last night he was teasing me by just barely touching my clit with his tongue, so very, very softly I had to concentrate on was he really touching me or not. No matter how I moved he seemed to keep just the same distace away. It was mind blowing. When he finally did let me know he was there I came hard...several times!
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I'm a freak everywhere on my bed all night long.
Hmmm.....
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Thank you very much! Since I have it set up to automatically log me in, I never went to the Login page--probably the only place on TooTimid I didn't look!
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She was actually more reserved than most of the others, and it was hard to understand how this quiet, nice woman could attract, and bed so many guys, but she had. She still had much to learn, and I taught her a lot during the brief time we were lovers. She was quite wonderful, and it was a pleasure teaching her some things she had missed. She thought she knew everything, until we became lovers, and then marveled that there were some new things for her to learn.
Howard
I mentioned in a post I just wrote that I had many lovers before my husband, yet I too was more reserved, almost painfully shy. But in many of the situations I was "looking for love in all the wrong places." My parents were divorced in a time frame when divorce was not common; my step-father was horrible--he made me feel fat and ugly and not worthy of any man. My dad was having cancer surgeries and treatments the last three years I was in high school so even though he was the most wonderful, loving father, the only contact I had with him were letters. My mom would not let me have any contact with him, because he wasn't paying child support (because he wasn't working due to the cancer) and even back then it took a while for SSDI to kick in, so I had to get letters from him through a friend. But that's another story....
Anyway, because of my feelings of inferiority, and the desire to be loved, I equated sex with love. There were four men before my husband who truly loved me, but for one reason or another things didn't work out. But there were more men that I had sex with because I wanted to feel loved. Even with my husband, it took me about four years to fully trust him that he was not going to just use me and that he really loved me.
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I patiently waited until the end of today, with yesterday being a holiday, to see if I received an answer to this question. I still cannot see a link to get to my wish list. Please advise. I have looked through every page, and I did put items into it. What am I missing?
Maybe I am just blind, but after putting items in my Wish List I can't find how to get to it. -
Maybe I am just blind, but after putting items in my Wish List I can't find how to get to it.
Many of you were asking for this. You now can place items in a wish list and email them to your partner or just keep separate from your shopping cart. I hope you like it. Let us know if you have any questions.Rob
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Thanks! I was hoping you would do this. I can now separate out my wish list from my shopping list and not have to remove and re-add when I order something.
TooTimid is definitely THE BEST place to shop and you keep making it better!
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I guess I just want to know that there's someone else out there right now that knows how I feel.
My boyfriend and I were sooo happy together, but he's been shipped off to Kuwait and it's been months since I've seen him and i don't even get to talk to him that much. *cries*
feeling alone AND sex-less really sucks....
Is there anyone here that can relate?
I am not going through it now, but my husband is retired military and we had plenty of separations--any where from a couple weeks to a year. The positive aspect of this is it is part of what kept our relationship alive these 31 years. The reunions were always fantastic, and everytime we were back together, especially after a lengthy separation, it was like being newlyweds all over again. I especially remember when I first got to Italy. He had been there three months without me. There was something about that country (we always joked it was all the grape leaves they vineyards burned so often) that made us incredibly horny all the time.
Anyway, there have been good suggestions in the answers to your post about staying busy. But filling the loneliness, to say nothing of the lack of sex, is more difficult. This was back before the soldiers had access to e-mail, but we would write X-rated letters to each other. I have kept everyone of those letters and used to worry about what would happen if something happened to both of us and our kids found them. Now I don't worry and not just because they are older. I think if they took the time to read them, they would see the love and passion we have always had for each other and be happy and proud for us.
If you can find a support group it would be helpful, or just one or two women who are going through the same thing you are, to be able to talk. If I can be of any help, please PM me. I'll be glad to listen and lend and ear and a shoulder.
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When I said he was laughing it was in a good way. He loves country, but music doesn't do it for him.
Good luck on your endeavors. I hope you get your club up and running.
Well I like to listen to music to get me in the mood prefferably R&B.
There are certain songs on the radio or by the artist that they play on the radio at a certain hour. Me myself love to listen to R&B music because of the way the artist expresses themselves it is very erotic and sensual it can set the mood for whatever mood you're in whateher it is to have a nice evening at home with your spouse or signifigant other or you want to set the mood to a sexy lovemaking session with your SO music enhances whatever mood you are trying to create.
I think the fact that you husband is laughing is because you play the same song constantly and although it may do something for you it may not do anything for him so try different type of music my personal prefference is R&B music.
I listen to many R&B artist from the late 60's,the early and late 70's, the 80's,the 90's and today's R&B.
Form artist like Usher,R.Kelly,Alicia Keys,MaryJ.Blige just to name a few if you wnat I'll send you a list of songs that I would like to put on a CD once I get someone to burn them for me I'll give you the name of the song, the artist and the name of the Album/CD.
I plan on becoming a DJ and I specialize in R&B music to set any type of mood one day I will own my own nightclub and it will be called "The Rainbow Room" each room will have a different color and it will play different music in each room of the six colors in the rainbow. DJ Mo' Grind est. 1991
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I found another site that had sex quizzes, these a little more "tongue in cheek." I took one entitled "What will the porno of your life be called?" and it was
The porno of Claudia's life will be called ...
"10 Things you always wanted to do with a vibrator"
Yep, sounds about right.
Here's the link:
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OK, there was a post about a C&W song about trashy women, which brings up something else I was wondering about. I am sure I am not the only one that gets turned on listening to some music. Right now it is "Your Man" by Josh Turner. The lyrics of the song are beautiful, sensuous, and that deep bass voice of his....I get so turned on listening to that song. My husband teases me because I play it so often, but doesn't understand how it can affect me like it does.
And is there no spell check on these posts? I had to open up Microsoft Word to get the correct spelling of sensuous!
Because honestly I've always considered myself to be pretty average in every way, and now I just have a little higher opinion of my body (not that it's perfect), but still think the rest of me is average. Oh well, as long as I"m sexy to me and to my husband that's all that really matters right!?
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I'm gong for Business Management, I think. I still haven't declared yet, so I'm not 100% sure. I want to go into HR Management, but the college doesn't offer a degree in that.
And THANKS everyone for their comments and wishes.