Hi all. I'm also a novice to the remote control models but we've been thinking about trying one out for some time now. I suppose I'm looking for something similar to Hornywife in that I want to get the thrill of doing it in public which is partly down to the risk factor but conversely I definitely DON’T want to risk getting caught so, on balance, discreetness is much more important than intensity. I would also like one that I can wear under my clothes for an evening and it will sit reasonably comfortably until it's time to do the deed rather then have to be fiddling about trying to put it on in some tiny restaurant cubicle halfway through the meal. I was thinking that one of the clitoral stimulating butterflies without insertion would probably be most suitable and since I would like my partner to be involved, I'm looking at a wireless version at the moment. Does anybody else think that would be the best choice for starting out?