hello. I'm new to this, so please bear with me. my husband and i have recently rekindled some of the lost passion in our sexlife. he works long hours an so do i, but things couldn't be hotter right now. (i'm 26, he's 27 and we've been together almost 10 years) my question is, how do i get him interested in some "aides." the man is an excellent lover, fantastic on the foreplay issue (most of the time) and can usually get me to orgasm at least 1x every time we make love. but it seems to be a standard number of positions. he is very reluctant to use anything, be it a vibrator, dildo, role playing, fuzzy handcuffs, etc. we've already discussed it in a nonsexual atmosphere and i've explained that he is more than adequate, i just want to add to his pleasure as well as mine. still, no dice. i own 1 vibrator and i use it when he is not around. any suggestions would be helpful.
