Ok well i seem to not get very wet at all when i have sex i always use a condom thinking lubrication may help? but i get dry still when masturbating i still get dry when i use lubrication. I have noticed that the normal wetness that comes from me is more of a white glue like moisture kind of like you get in your panties? but i dont understand why i can't lube normally like other women without using lubrication ( also i hate lubrication during intercourse if i use to much then i can't feel as my partner as well) or saliva only works temporarily more or less to help insert the penis ..... please help and tell me what i can do another type of lubrication...something i may not be doing right or eating right. Next question is i seem to have an anal fetish well i always like anal penetration during sex and while masturbating i usually use anal beads but they are gettin old im looking for a change any suggestions? Sincerely Freaking Out in NC