Hi there everyone. I'm in a "just sex" situation that if isn't really just sex anymore because I have feelings and I think he does too. He whispered that he loved me and brought it up to ask if I really heard what he said. When I asked him if he meant it, he said he didn't know but that he felt comfortable saying it. We've been going on like nothing has changed but in reality that changed everything. I want to see if he's interested in seeing if we could be more than "friends with benefits" but I want it to seem like it was his idea as I think being really straightforward might freak him out...any suggestions that anyone can give me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!