charise820

I have to say that I have been in this place before. My hubby was 21 when we meet and in the army and hadn't had a serious girlfriend before and hadn't really kissed or done anything with a girl before. I have to say we talked and tried things and I had to be willing to give him the time to learn what he liked and that I liked. I have to say that I love that because my hubby isn't just out for him like other men I have been with. we are now out to make each other happy. My best advice is to talk, take your time and learn what each like amd them happy. Hope that this helps. Charise

I got this too and I don't think that it is that bad I think that you should just becareful when turning it off I think that it has pretty strong vibs. I haven't try it yet but I will later tonight. Thanks for the freebe and think that it is so cute.

Howard thanks that is what I was thinking but I didn't what him woundering why I waited to tell him. But it was one of those strange things i geuss. Thanks again this site has been a help and has my mind on the right path to healing and to the jot of sex...I am glad that I found this site. Charise

OK I'm not sure how to start this this is my second post every. First of all this site has been a great help to me, I have had a problem with my sex drive since I got pregnate with my 2nd child. After I got pregnate I didn't wan anything to too with sex, even after the birth and up until my hubby went over seas. Now I know that some of it was hormones but I know that not all of it was...because I would get it the mood but still didn't want hubby to touch me or even look at me like he wanted me. And I now relize that something that I forgot about kind of (i know once I tell you are going to be like how can yu forget about it but I did). When I was with my 1st sons dad (not my hubby) sex was something that you did wiether you wanted to or not, did matter if you said no....and if for some reason he didn't get sex the I HAD to please him orally. I know this man was a jerk took me some time but I got out of it I always the of the mental and physcal abuse and those where my reason to get out. I'm glad that I did. but my issue is that Up until and week or so ago I didn't relize just HOW much this afftected my sex life I didn't have one for years after him, not until my hubby. And my hubby is all about pleasing me, coumpetely different. But I never told my hubby how my sex life was with my ex well mainly because I am my hubby first and only...talking about what my sex life was like before kind of weirds him out...he is getting much better...but I'm not sure how or if I should tell him about this I mean it does explan at lot of how I was for over a year and a half, and why it bugs me sometime to be look at sexually. The other problem I have is that my hubby is over seas for quite a bit longer and if I do tell him I want to tell him face to face I think not online or an email. But my hubby would want to kick my ex's a** too. he already hates the stuff that I have told him about what happened and I was treated and it's all he can do know not to hit him...mainly it for my oldest sake who is our son even though he not his birth dad he is his son....I am lucky to have found my husband who waited and waited and took his time waiting for to learn to trust and love again who helped me through it all and all he ever wanted in return was me...and I love him He waited about 2 years before I was ready to tell him I loved him...though I loved him long before that....and he is still understanding about everything but I don't know how he will take this because it boils down to that I said no so many times and I was still forced to have or give sex orally...and I now know that this is the core of a lot of my issues.....I have a hard time going down onmy hubby...i have a hard time getting in the mood since getting pregnate and having the baby but not before which is weird....and I can't do anal which my hubby would like to try because that again was something that I forced to do with no lubercation..so it hurt and though freaks me out....so how should I tell my hubby and how can i let this go..I know that this is helping and now that I understand it is part of my problem I would love to have it fixed by the time hubby came home and it was like when we first got married again. Thanks for any help that you can offer..I hope that I'm not a lost cause.. Charise

Thanks He loves what he does. Charise

It was the end of July and I had not seen my husband in 6 months he had been serving overseas. And we were visiting family and we had gone upstairs into the attic to look for something for the birthday party that we were going to have. and down stairs was my family my grandmother and my cousins and my sons. And we started out looking for what ever it was that we were looking for when I thought huh?? we are alone for the first time in days and he is only home for a couple of weeks and well it was fun thinking that everyone is downstairs and I wanted my husband. So I went to the other end of the attic that was turned into a geust room that no one uses any more and it had a bed set up. I walked over there my hubby was still looking for ehat ever it was we were looking for and I undressed and called him over. I said, "I have what you want over here!" He turns and say you found it, I said come here. and I wish I had a carma for the look on his face. A huge smile came across it and he was like but you family is down stairs and the kids are down there. I told him my cousin will watch them and who cares about everyone else I want you!!! and then I reached up and started kissing him and minutes my hubby was going down and to town on me. He loves doing that because I love it so much. And he was so turned on by the thought that my grandmother might come up at anytime to see if we found what we were looking for. And then I got him all the way out of his clothes. (If we are going to be caught lets get caught good with nothing on) And soon he was in side me and it was the hottest sex we had in a long time but then again he had been gone for six months. And we just kept going and going until we heard the rest of the family show up. (my Grandmother has a drivwway buzzer that lets you know when someone there.) My hubby was like we have to stop and get down there before someone comes up. Then I said don't you dare stop and I rolled him and was on top until I had reached my big "O" ! Then I told I didn't think that any one would come up there any ways with out giving us heads up because they knew us well enough to know that I would be jumping him any chance that I had. I had worn dresses and would sit on his lap and my love to him right there with other people in the room with us. It was the hottest thing in the world and I can't wait until he comes home again because I have more that I want to do and topping that is going to be hard but we will do it!!!! I know that this is not much of a story but it is the best that i can do and I hope that you do enjoy it Thanks for reading and please pray for the safety of my hubby and his fellow troops. Charise