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Before everything happen and before I got pregnant I loved sex. But now I have this nagging voice in the back of my head telling me that it's wrong and it's dirty. I need some advice on how I can get rid of that little voice because as much as it talks about how wrong sex is I know sex isn't wrong and that I still enjoy it. But that feeling just keeps coming back and I ruins the moment during sex and makes me feel dirty at other times. What's up with that? How can I stop this from ruining my sex life? Which by the way I still enjoy but for some reason I'm ashamed of. Everyone please help me I respect the opinions of the people who respond to me and have done everything to date that needed to be done so please help me again. Tell me what's wrong with me?

So I ditched the abusive loser and started therapy to work thru what happened, but the problem now is that the good friend that I started sleeping with again. We've always had a friendship based on sex, but neither of us want to ruin our friendship by trying to have a relationship so we sleep together and that's it. Well any ways he just doesn't get me as horny as he used to. I can't get wet at all and I don't understand it because we've never had this problem before. I know it's not because I'm uncomfortable because how could I be around this awesome, understanding guy. Does any one have any advice on how We can get back what we had before? Or maybe some ideas to help with my new sex life? I am starting to get mad at myself again with this guy, what's going on? I just don't understand.

I have been with me boyfriend now for almost two years, we have a beautiful little girl together and I love him to death. But when I was six months pregnant he started hitting me and getting extremely violent with me. He knows that I won't deal with it any more and if it happens again that I am leaving him. So he has gotten a better grip on himself, but two weeks ago he got really drunk. He was blacking out and doesn't remember what happened but while he was drunk we were having sex, I was sober completly and just wanted a normal session. But it turned into anything but that, he started getting rough with me and I told him to stop but he wouldn't and he was hurting me, so I started screaming for him to stop but still he wouldn't so I figured maybe I let him finish he would just leave me alone so I relaxed. Then he flipped me over and I knew what he wanted but I didn't want to give it to him so I started fight ing him and he fought back. I kicked and screamed but he got me over and put lube on me and penetrated my anus. I fought away from him and screamed and he stuck his hand in my mouth to silence me and I bit it as hard as I could and he came back to his senses. But I flipped out and I'm still afraid of him even though I know it was the alcohol. Am I stupid for staying with him now, or should I continue to try even though he takes no reponsibility for what happened and he knows how my father was with me? Should I work thru this with the man I love or should I give it up because this is unfixable?

My boyfriend and I have been together now for almost two years and we have a beautiful little three month old daughter. Before I got pregnant with her and thru out my pregnancy and even right after I came home from the hospital we had sex every night, if not more than once a night. But since I got infected where they had to sew me up and the pain was so intense even though the baby sleeps thru the night and Im all healed I have little interest in sex. I don't want anyone else I just don't have much inerest in sex period. I am trying though and everything is still to tight down there. I don't know what to do, this is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend and I don't even know what's going on. Can someone please give me some advice on hwo to fix this or at least make it some what better? I don't know what's wrong with me, It's like for some reason I feel wrong about having sex. Please some one help me understand what's going on. I feel so alone in the way I feel about sex now and my boyfriend just doesn't understand. Help me!