Hi, First time in this kind of forum.....I need to ask a question and was hoping someone can help me out...I use to be in a relationship where anything basically goes we had no shame and we were 100% comfortable in talking about what we wanted to try out and our fantasies... I am in a new relationship and it is not the same....I obviously want more sex and want more foreplay and try different things and toys......but i don't know how to get my boyfriend interested.....he is not the same as me..he is more reserved and is basically just a missionary and occasional switch position person....I feel like he is more interested in his own satisfaction. I don't want him thinking that I am a freak (you know how guys can be) but i want i need more variety..... How do I or can I get my current boyfriend to try new things withhout him freaking out or think that I am a freak? Thanks