Shyguy

me and my SO have been together for the short side of 11 years, we had an arguement and we have came to the conclusion that we dont know each other nor ourselves anymore. we seem to have kinda grown apart within the years. we had a pretty detailed conversatiion, and we agreed to give it our all in trying to learn each other again. My question is, does anyone have any ideas or games or just any material of any type for us to use to learn and find each other again (likes, dislikes, favorite things, things that upset ETC....) The obvious way is to ask, but we want a fun way to remember and to create new memories and a new found friendship if possible Thanks

i agree those days of 5-10 times a day are def gone but ill still give it all effort to get as close as possible. the other night we were getting pretty hot and heavy and after about an hour of foreplay she got on her stomach and slightly put her ass in the air. we got it going pretty good and she was moaning and sqeezing her pillow and then she said to me go slow and i went slow and it made me climax. but i gave it a min. in the meantime i was caressing her and rubbing and kissing her until i was ready again them she said please put your cock in me so i did but not all the way in (i played the 3 inch rule). and that drove her crazy to the point where she grabbed my leg and scratch the hell outta me (which felt good (heat of the moment). and she kept moaning louder then she said "fuck my pussy baby" so i went faster (she had to hold the headboard for noise reasons) a few minutes later she said SLOW DOWN BABY. so i did. by MY 3rd climax i beleive i got her to the peak she said she couldnt walk and we laid in bed for like 20 mins b4 we cleaned up. we both slept great. she told me the night b4 this experience that she is still shy and i said weve been together for 10 years how can you still be shy, then i asked her how i can help with that and she said you have been. im gonna try the shower deal next. Thank you all sooooo much for the advice ill try it all within time. ill keep you all posted if you would like THANKS AGAIN

i do, do all of those things and she does them back just no grand finally. example lastnight we got my mother to watch the kids for a few hours. so we went bowling which we havent done in a few years, we had a few drinks, we flirted kissed, gropped each other any given chance, went home I gave my son a bath put him to sleep, when i was done with that the baby had fallen asllep on her own so my SO went and took a shower and came down stairs and asked to put lotion on her feet (which i love to do cuz of the reaction i get just completely relaxed and she says her head gets tingley) continued up her thighs with a lotion massage teased a little by just barely brushing the area between her pussy and thigh, i could tell she loved it she just was kinda limp and relaxed, i had her put her foot on my cock while I was putting lotion on her (hoping she would maybe kinda rub on my cock or somthing just some acknolegment from her that it felt good)and to see what i was doing with a good view of her. which that made me hot as hell. well about an hour later we went to bed (like 2 hours earlier than I usually do). i continued to to touch her lightly with my finger tips as she loves on her stomach, thighs,arms well basicaly everywhere but her pussy (which i would have loved to do but i wasnt getting much reaction besides ("that feels good"). then after about an hour longer my arm started to get tired so i slowed down then she placed her hand on my chest and rubbed it for like 4 seconds and by then i was kinda tired of no reaction so i just tapered off and stopped and she fell asleep about ten minues later and thats it im not sure how much more sensual or touchy i could have been in that paticular situation to gert things going. i dont think its the baby thing because when we do have sex it is good for both of us just (enough for her to call me like 4-5 times the next day to say hi or to say thing about the night b4(which gets me going again but not her) not as often as i would like, im 28 but i feel like an 18 year old as far as want and need goes i think im a nympho J/K ill even leave her text's or somthing explaining i cant wait to lick on her wet juicy pussy and taste her again etc..... all i ususally get is an oh yea or somthing she doesnt play back (im just confused and frankly tired of trying with no responses) sorry to keep blabbering Thank you alot for the advice and or ideas, im not knocking them just not sure how to get her to want sex more Thanks, that i have not tried but i def will give it my all and hope to enjoy each other while doing it, thank you alot your comments and advice are appreciated

she doesnt take any meds at all just to say that, but the hormone thing is obviously possible. ok just to say she leaves for work at 730am and gets home at 4pm, to where i leave to work at 6am and dont usually get home till 630pm which is 2.5 hours after her. and i do help with the children as much as another person can, as it is she isnt to handy in the kitchen if you know what i mean i do 90 % of the cooking, i wash the laundry (she folds), i do the dishes (she puts them away somtimes), and i pick the house up every night b4 i go to bed which is at like 11-12pm she goes to bed at 9pm. as far as more kids no we both agreed two is plenty and she decided to get her tubes (tied or cut) after our daughter was born which happened b4 she went home from the hospital she did mention once how she is imbarrased to have an orgasm because it kinda feels like she has to pee (yes she empties her bladder b4 sex) and it makes a mess, i asked her to relax and i would love to make her have an orgasm and it would turn me on more to see her enjoy it like that, no matter the mess or not, i told her to cum in my mouth so i can taste her or on my hand so i can feel her warm juices on me. ive also said the more the mess the better the sex just to get her to not worry about the human nature of sexual activity. just in response no offense just trying to explain. and i very much appreciate the advice i dont mean to knock the advice if it sounds that way

no actually our son is 2-1/2 years old and our daughter is 2-1/2 Months old. in the topic of the house buying we are just looking at this moment and havent gotten real serious about what exactly we are looking for so we prob wont buy a house for a short peiod of time. and yes she does work and both kids go to daycare, we both drop off one each at diferrent baby sitters and work all day then we pick up child at daycare and go home. to answer your question i cant say that i have felt her contract around my cock nor fingers but yes it does seem to be a little more moist after the fact. i get the impression that she wont fully just let go and get down she has allways seemed kinda reserved in the "bedroom", when i do get her close to what seems to be an orgasm she stops me and tells me she want me to put my cock in her. i asked her why she wont let me finish what i started and she doesnt really have an answer. the last time i went down on her she let me go alot further and she said she did cum, and then she wouldnt let me touch her anymore with my hands she just wanted me in her she said. and to comment on your comment of "stop worrying about how she orgasms", im not worrying HOW she has an orgasm im worried IF she is having them i have allways tried to please her in one way or another before my self in bed. i do helpl around the house a little and definitly help with the kids and thank you for the insight above.

we are both 28 yrs. old she is 6mo younger, we have been together for the longer part of 9years, we have two kids son is 2-1/2 yrs. & daughter is 2-1/2 months, and are in the process of selling our townhome to buy a house, That being said when we first got together we were having sex like rabbits literally (like 5-10 times a day). in the past years it has declined to if im lucky 2x a week. is there any advice that i can get to try to get that lust and passion back for us. it just seems as if she isnt soo turned on by me anymore. she claims to have an orgasm when we do have sex and or foreplay but im under the impression that when a female truely has the "BIG O" that itll be a reaction ive never saw before from a woman, like screming or cant get up for a few minutes shaky legs etc..... she does the whole ohh yea right there dont stop and and so on, but im not fully convinced she is literally Cumming there is no fluid or anything beyond just being juicy and wet as normal after having given her oral. is there any way i can truely tell if she is having an orgasm or just saying so to satisfy me??? my first post so sorry if i jump around on subjects just have alot to ask