thank you so much for the advice about things to do for him. what you said was something i can really enjoy and so can he. as far as "kinky" goes... i guess i meant doing kinds of things that would require me to take charge and do the things that he does to me..he talks of role playing and dirty talking...im sure that i will get more comfortable with myself and with being more aggresive in bed but i want to do it now.. lol... i want to do those things for him but.. am kinda afraid i will make a full of myself.. but.. i try it ...he is very fun and exciting in bed and i want to suprise him with something like that from me. what you told me is something im looking foward to doing. i just need ideas for ways to get my shy butt out and let lose on him. its strange... i am such a wild person outside the bedroom... but in the bedroom... im very reserved. i guess its all confidence i guess.. and ill get there.. i just will start in little baby steps in the bedroom.. i want to be his little sex kitten lol. thanks again for your advice it was very helpful. im suprised anyone left a post. thanks again