rayhoun

THANK YOU Mikayla for your reply. This brings me to another potential solution that i wanted to get your feedback on - do you think of instead of asking her to tell me stories about her past, i can ask her to make up stories involving her and another guy? or would this make her feel like she's cheating on me? i dont think i would ever want her to do that, its just that the thought of her with someone else is a bit of a turn on. we've explored using toys and she likes to use them from time to time and i've encouraged her to use some nicely sized ones. maybe incoroprating the toys and the stories might work? thanks again for your time.

Hi I've been married for 4 years or so and my wife and I have a great sex life. I'm trying to spice it up somemore by getting her to tell me stories, especially of her with her past lovers. I'm not interested in her taking a new lover but just like to hear about how she's been with others and with bigger guys. She's done it once or twice relucantly but i dont want to force her to tell me these things. Any ideas on how to get her to tell me these stories? (BTW i also posted under the newbie section as i'm also new to this group, sorry for the duplication) Thanks!

Hi I've been married for 4 years or so and my wife and I have a great sex life. I'm trying to spice it up somemore by getting her to tell me stories, especially of her with her past lovers. I'm not interested in her taking a new lover but just like to hear about how she's been with others and with bigger guys. She's done it once or twice relucantly but i dont want to force her to tell me these things. Any ideas on how to get her to tell me these stories?