christinaf085

for me the first time i tried anal i hated it, if made me feel like i had to take a giant crap and was just not pleasant at all. i am now with someone else and after a few talks and some finger play we tried it again for the first time last night. I didn't like it better that vaginal sex, and didn't orgasm but it was pleasurable. At first i got that "omg it feels like i have to take a crap" sensation, he tried to be sensitive and go slow. then i decided just to push it faster (but not so deep as our normal sex) This is when it started feeling good. i have heard when u first try to go slow, but imo too slow, or just laying there and not moving is the only thing wrong with it.

I would have to say if you told her you were uncomfortable with it and she kept talking to him, or she wouldn't let you see what was being said yes. I don't think thats cheating b/c she wasn't responding sexually but I do think she was wrong and I would have been hurt for even responding and letting the "long, sexual texts" go further than 1. I found my self in a similar situation recently except that I found that some slut, who knew he had a me, send my bf nude pics via cell phone. he kept them b/c he thought they were the same as porn. this made me really unhappy, it wasn't cheating but hurt me. we had a long talk about what is and is not cheating and he did admit to "kind of having cyber sex" a few months ago. I DO consider cybering cheating and again he things of it as just a form of porn. he know it upsets me now, and has promised not to do it again. We are working on things but its going good, still if I found out he did it again or find dirty pics that aren't real porn or of me we are going to have a major problem. did that answer your question?

Birth control pills, and as the person before me said occasionally condoms. I have to say they suck, i think i'm getting lucky that i haven't been knocked up yet i forget to take them too much! I would deff like to be on something thats NOT a pill so yea, anyone have any suggestions? what works for you patch, shot? I really dont want the IUD i have heard nothing but bad things about them

I am just curious because after reading a post last week about "would you want to know if they are cheating" i got thinking and talking to a few friends, people seem to have different views of what is and is not cheating. So, in your opinion what is cheating and what is ok? (ex: they can't have real sex but you don't care about cyber sex with others) And if you caught your significant other doing any sexual things with another what would you do

I would want to know. I think everyone has a little bit of a different definition of what is cheating and what is ok and I would want to know so I could decide weather he was still worth fighting for.

our relationship has been magnificent until this. this is the only problem we have had. it upset me so bad the first time he asked that I had a nervous break down, (was crying so hard that I threw up, got a headache so bad I couldn't see, and then passed out for 2 hours). he promised me he would let it go and not ask me again. but now he wants me to have a threesome, still. I know its a guy fantasy, but why do we have to live it out? I don't want him with another girl, if this happens I am going to be crushed and not be able to trust him again. I have told him in these exact world how much I don't want this but he thinks that b/c I am curious about other girls it would be good. how else do I get him to see that this will ruin our relationship? I don't want to leave him, but if we have a threesome I can't stay (I told him that too and he still thinks he can change my mind) :-(

it doesn't hurt with this guy, i'm very comfortable w/him. we've only tried it once but just makes me feel like a had to take a huge crap. i was lying on my back, is there another poistion that can make it feel GOOD?

I mastrubate every day. And my bf and i have sex atleast 4 times a week, usually every other day. my vagina hurts after so i guess i need a day for it to relax but i'm still horny. for the past 2 weeks sex has been alot more frequent (6 days in a row so far). i LOVE having sex with him but i'm afraid that (1) i'm becimmong a nympho, and (2) that i might damage something from over use. am i CRAZY???

I recently purchased the Erotic Butterfly Vibrator. It came with adjustable leg straps which are supposed to hold it up so that you can move around while using it. I don't plan to go far with it on, however I have the straps tightened all the way and it still falls off. I tried wearing tight boy-shorts over it but this hasn't worked either. some one please help!

I recently purchased the Erotic Butterfly Vibrator. It came with adjustable leg straps which are supposed to hold it up so that you can move around while using it. I don't plan to go far with it on, however I have the straps tightened all the way and it still falls off. I tried wearing tight boy-shorts over it but this hasn't worked either. some one please help!