kioko24

this forum helped me out when i was a scared beginner. not that i'm an expert (yet ). now i have a problem.... i LOVE anal play and sex. i can't get enough. my boyfriend is somewhat abliging but a little bummed that i rather do that then "regular" sex. the problem comes in that before we tried anal, i could orgasim almost EVERY time with some manual stimulation to my clit. since anal, we do the same thing and nothing. it's like my body knows how good the orgasim is with anal so it just rather wait for that. it's caused a bit of a problem. my boyfriend is starting to feel he isn't "fulfilling" my needs and i'm getting frustrated cause even though i LOVE anal, i don't want it to be the ONLY thing i can do to get to orgasim. am i a freak here or has anyone else experienced this? i would welcome any and ALL suggestions on what to do.

i guess it's a relief to know that it's normal. thank you for the suggestions. i can talk to my friends about most sex related issues but anal sex sends a look of disgust on all their faces.

i'm still a beginner with anal sex. i tried it once years ago and had an embarrassing incident with "leakage" (for lack of a better term) and hadn't done it since with a partner. i have since, while masturbating, inserted fingers and dildos anally. At those times I never experience any anal "leakage". so, i'm in a new relationship now and he wanted to try it. i feel more comfortable with him then any past boyfriend. we did, and it was great. afterwards when he went to the bathroom first to clean up, to my horror, there was "leakage" on the sheets. unlike my first partner who was grossed out by the whole thing, he said nothing. i don't know if he just didn't see (the room was dark during the whole act) or if it didn't phase him. he is more experienced with this then i am or my past partner as well. so, is this normal? is there a way to make sure it doesn't happen? why didn't it happen when i would pleasure myself? i want to continue this act because i do enjoy it but i don't want to be embarrassed everytime we do it. it basically had me in tears in the bathroom. any advise would be GREATLY appreciated.