We have been lurking for about two months and have really learned a lot from reading all the postings,and have quite a few toys, but we would really like to know what the difference is between a dong and a dildo. We're new to this, having just gotten our first "real" toys ( the plastic vibrator from the mall being our only one for almost five years) recently. This site has opened a whole new world for us, from movies to strap-ons, but we have never been able to find out what the real difference is between dildos and dongs.