[Auto-blow]

Folks: This is not a dating service, or a porno exchange site. I am sure that if you want to see this kind of thing, there are porn sites on the internet that show other men with this kind of talent. If you can do this, more power to you. If not, the world of sex is not over. There are still plenty of ways to masturbate, and enjoy yourself.

I'm with you Howard. Not only that, but even if I could I wouldn't. It would make me sick.

[Spanking]

Like Howard said, I think the most important thing to let her know is that it's about pleasure, not pain. The idea is to heighten her sensitivity not beat the crap out of her. She needs to really understand that. Make sure you let her know about safe words. If she's willing to try it, pick one out, something you wouldn't normally say during sex or during this kind of play. Some women like to get into character and say things like no, stop, or please don't. You need to come up with something like grass or chair or elephant. Something that is unusual and will stand out. Also tell her you'll go slow. Don't turn her ass pink the first time. Build up to it gradually. Make sure that you give pleasure as well. Pause during the spanking to carress her ass or tickle her with a feather or something. Let her see how much more sensitive it makes her and how good that can feel. Even if you were planning to do all of this, sit down with her and make sure she knows. There's alot of fear involved in this kind of play, especially for women. They think you'll get carried away and go to far. They also think it's really bad and wrong to like that kind of thing. I struggled with that myself. I'd been raised that a man was never supposed to inflict pain, of any degree, on a woman. But secretly that's what I craved. You may have to go slow, to help her get over some of those thoughts. The main thing is to not scare her. The first sentence of your post would be scary to any woman who hasn't ever tried this kind of thing. You just really need to sit down with her and talk to her about it. I think if you can talk to her and get her to try this, making sure to go slowly, that she'll open up to other things too. Once she realizes that it's all for the sake of pleasure, and there's nothing wrong with wanting any of the things you listed, she may be willing to try more. It's all about playing with and pleasing each other. She needs to understand that. Showing her this site would be a good place to start.

Thanks for the reply. I never really worded it to her as bluntly as I did here on the fourm. As I said before I did it a lot with my ex and she liked rough talk but of coarse I never hurt her during play.(or any other time). We played the "bad girl" game or as I said before "bad boy" game quite often. I'd never want to beat the crap out of anyone. If I came across as too rough ....sorry... I didn't mean it that way. I just like to do different things and have fun, Again Thanks.

[Spanking]

I absolutely love to spank a woman's ass till its really pink. I have done this to several girls who liked it as much as I do. While they lay across my lap I can finger their pussy and ass at the same time I'm giving them a good spanking. I like to be spanked too. As long as no one gets hurt, its a real turn on to me but my wife will have nothing to do with it. Any suggestions? I'm adventurous in lots of other ways too but she isn't. After it passes oral sex the adventure is over for her,it's really boring to me and we don't even bother most of the time. I like toys....she doesn't...I like to be fingered in the butt ... she won't do it....I like my nipples played with....nope. You get the message....Help!

[Does This Work?]

Just trying to see if I'm doing this right