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LIKE I SAID, I'M GONE BUT IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS WORTH A SHIT OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM THEN YOU DON'T NEED ADVICE OR AT LEAST I NEVER HAVE... AGAIN SORRY FOR BOTHERING YOU PEOPLE I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN YOU ARE A CLICK.

I tell you what, I'm gone and I ain't comming back....sorry for stateing my feelings on your site and wasting your time. I NEVER ONE TIME CALLED ALLLLLLLLLLLL WOMEN A BITCH...NOT ONCE. AND I ALSO TOLD YOU THAT I HAD MET SOMEONE ON THIS SITE THAT HAS HELPED A WHOLE BUNCH. NOT ONLY THAT BUT HOWARD IS A VERY SMART PERSON WHO UNDERSTANDS BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. BUT FOR THE MOST PART WOMEN ARE MAN HATERS PERIOD. AND DON'T CALL ME A JACKASS...YOU DON'T KNOW A THING ABOUT ME....NOTHING

How is your relationship outside the bedroom? With me that is the whole problem in my marriage..... OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM. Sex is to a relationship what a pool is to a house....an addition to an already nice place to be, something to be enjoyed.... If the house is a mess, I ain't goin in the pool cause I won't enjoy it. if my relationship is a mess Sex is the last thing I want. I can't use sex to clean up the mess. I can however, enjoy sex once the mess is cleaned up it is a by-product of a clean healthy relationship. All too often I see woman to woman advice that goes like this.....Shave your pussy....stick a dildo up your ass and wiggle.... masturbate with a vib that looks like a horse in front of him and if this don't turn him on then leave the no good S O B...he don't love you. That is the advice I see. Men.... ARE....NOT.....WALKING.....DICKS. PUSSY.....IS.....NOT......ALL .....WE ......NEED. WE.....NEED.....LOVE.....AND.....SUPPORT....... OUTSIDE.........THE.........SEXUAL......INVIROMENT.....JUST.....LIKE.......YOU.. ..WOMEN.....DO.....BELIEVE......IT......OR .....NOT. And when that does not happen we shut down. AGAIN.....FUCKING.....IS....A BY-PRODUCT.....OF......A GOOD......AND.......LOVING......RELATIONSHIP. I have had the pleasure of great relationships before so I know what they are. If a man had written your post women from all over the world would have said .....TALK TO HER.....LOVE HER MORE.....ECT. ECT. ECT. Double standard every time... I say this look at the relationship over all....do you want it? Does he want it? If so then Try to talk it out if not then split up its that simple.

Woa!!! woa! Wait a minute what goes on outside the bedroom directly affects what goes on inside. How does she treat him outside the bedroom. I am the victim of a really crappy marriage and not one damn bit if it is my fault period. And it all because of the way I.....the male..(yes we are human even though it shines through on ALMOST every womans post that we that we aren't) am treated outside the bedroom. Let me let you in on a little secret....If you are a bitch outside the bedroom then no man is going to want anything but a Piece of pussy in bed...I don't even want that from a bitch. I don't know if that is this girls problem or not but it makes me want to puke when you girls autotmatically blame the man. I haven't fucked my wife in 2 or three years cause she's a bitch outside I'd rather fuck a snake... I have ask for imput several times on this fourm from women about what your role is in a relationship and have not gotten one answer yet. NOT ONE ANSWER FORM A WOMAN ABOUT YOUR ROLE OR RESPONSIBILITY IN A RELATIONSHIP. Shaveing ya'lls poon is not the most important thing on earth. I know for a fact that i am not the only man who feel this way by a long shot... Read some of my other post(please) and you will see that somethimes we are not the bad guy. There are some women out there who, klike my so called wife need to be fucked one last time.....in court and in my case its on its way to her with no anal eze if this shit don't do a 180 today. I met a lady on this site who has really been nice to me through pm and I am going to try some of her advice, but if it doesn't work I'm outta here. I AM NOT SAYING THAT THIS IS THIS WOMANS PROBLEM...MAYBE SHE IS A GODDESS BUT JUST LETTING YOU KNOW IF A WOMAN IS A BITCH THEN EXPECT TO BE SHUT OUT.

Honey, You are really, really young but thanks for your thoughts and enjoy being young. I wish you only the best life has to offer. Kinkey Guy

You do get the picture. Thanks. I have ask my wife for a date this weekend and she accepted. I am still trying to put this back toghether but this is a last ditch effort. I fully understand what you said about your ex wife. I think a lot of the problem is I am taken for granted. I take no one for granted not even my non wife person with whom I live. I put 100 percent into everything I do and expect the same in return. I married very late in life because I never found any woman who ever gave back what she got from me. I played the field a long time dated and lived with several different women including strippers , church goers, tall, short, slim and not so slim, educated, and not so edcuated. The one common denomanatior is after a while they took me for granted and I kicked their ass to the curb. This time is different...there is a kid envolved and I don't care what anyone says women will never love their kids the way or as much as a man does that is the reason they always go for the throat during divorce....."I'm taking the kids" is their first tactic. If this works out....fine.... if not you'll never hear about another wife from me.

I have lot s of respect for You and your comments but we did not both have a hand in this marriage going south she did this all by herself I have carried far more than my end of the pole for far too long.. Not long ago we had a discussion and decided to make a list of what we thought we contributed to each other and the relationship. Her list was.....no shit....she makes my coffee in the morning and sometimes does my laundry. THE END. My list included everything else that has to do with running a household and now I make my own damn coffee. Now, I did not ask the question to have my marriage analyzed but to get an answer to the question I asked which was not meant to offend anyone....you once again came the closest so far to an answer that makes scents and I resepect that and I thank you. You understood the question....thank you for your answer it makes scents.

I've done my part for 17 years If it gets fixed she'll fix it ...not me. But my personal relationship was not the original question. I do however, thank you for your comments..You certianly have every right to your opinion. Waiting a hell of a long time is out of the question.

Like I said, it's not just me and its not just in our house.I talk to other men and it happens all the time. There's no denying it. It has nothing to do with you but is meant in general terms. Obviously Howard knows what I'm talking about. The dammage is already done and is irrreversible. I absoutly refuse to go to counseling because I have done my part and am at my ropes end. If there are any changes to be made she will make them....I won't.

I have to ask this question.I have asked many times before in different settings but never really got an answer.. So, WhY is it that if a woman says "not tonight , I 'm not in the mood" are we supposed to lay our pecker on the toilet seat and slam the lid, take a cold shower or just jerk off and forget it. But, If men are not in the mood, they are fucking someone else no doubt about it. It happens all the time. I talk to lots of men and we all encounter this from time to time. Not only that but women don't stop ya'll keep on and on and on and on grabbing, feeling ect. and often start an argument if we don't perform or puff up but we are supposed to like it if ya'll say no. Whats the deal with that? Huh? Huh? Maybe our pecker hurts or something, maybe it's not anything to do with ya'll could be that we caught our pecker in our zipper at work but not according to ya'll....we are fucking another woman.....explain that.

My ex used to be the same way and it was great. I assume you are refering to squirting. There are lots of questions posted on this fourm about women squriting. For me. as a man I think it is the best part of sex except for my own orgasm of corse. My ex used to sit on my face and I ate her pussy until she would squirt what seemed like gallons. It is a clear liquid and taste kind of sweet or at least hers did . At first I thought she was peeing on me but didn't take long to figure out that it was cum.. after I came in her I would keep playing with her G spot and clit just to watch her squrit. The sheets had to be changed every time. The feeling of her cum on my balls while I was in her pussy was great too. YES.

I am willing to do a lot of things but this is not for me. I love eating pussy but not after I cum.

If there are toys out there for men that can do all that ....SIGN ME UP!!!!!!!!

Suicide should never be an option....you' re a human being and no one should ever be treated the way I'm understanding your post. I had some pretty serious issues a couple of years back that made me consider suicide too but there is help out there. I have no Idea where you are but there must be a crisis line and those people most likely saved my life. They listen , so if it's really to that point call them for your sake and your sons. NO one is worth taking your life....no one. Good Luck

The oil (or maybe it is considered gel) was sweet and had a lot of flavor. Whatever it was didn't work on her pussy. Other flavors of the same stuff didn't bother her.

Please check your pm box.

I tried cinnamon on an ex girlfriend once and it set her pussy on fire....we spent the rest of the night trieing to wash it out. It was our first experince with flavored oil and we just jumped right in no questions asked by either. I like having it used on me but with that first experince I used something different with my wife when we used to fuck and suck. I'm gonna use it with a fake pussy.

Thank you Howard, you hit the nail on the head.

You didn't offend me at all. There are things I have read here that wouldn't be for me either and you are right, we are all different I really don't think anyone got bent out of shape, they just have a different opinion and thats ok. The reason I asked the question is that my wife don't get into fucking like she used to and I haven't slowed down a bit as far as libdo goes. My own hand jobs get old and again you may be right, maybe it would be a substitute. I haven't cheated on her even though lots of people who know the scoop have incouraged me to. I have talked till I'm blue in the face and until she makes some changes I need something different. Hell, I'd buy a blowup doll if I could hide it at this point. Sex is a very important part of marriage and if one partner wants to keep the other (either way) then they need to be willing to keep each other satisfied. I'm not talking about fucking another woman here but I am wanting to do something besides baby oil and my hand. I am a loving husband and I don't deserve to be treated this way sexualy by her. She don't put out most of the time and I'm tired of it and if you girls can cheat with a dildo then whats good for the goose is good for the gander. I'm not trying to argue with you or offend you. You have every right to feel the way you do and just for the record if my wife would just meet me 1/4 of the way i wouldn't feel the way I do. I have all kinds of advice on this fourm about what I NEED TO DO FOR HER BUT WHAT DOES SHE NEED TO DO FOR ME. Don't misunderstand, I welcome any and all suggestions but remeber this...MEN DO HAVE FEELINGS AND NEEDS NO MATTER WHAT OPRAH SAYS. Thanks for your reply and keep it up...I can learn from you I'm sure.

Does anyone know if the fake pussies are any good? I've been thinking about trying one.

I just got here and don't have any idea what anyone said to you but I am so sorry to hear that you lost a child...my heart goes out to you. I read a couple of your post and don't see anything wrong. It seems to me that your opinion is just as valid as everyone else. I don't know you but I wish you the best and hope you will come back..... I need all the advice I can get when it comes to sex and relationships. You are important. Good luck.

She is only 41 years old. I am a very young 55 and still have lots of life left in me. She , as I said is 41 and older than I am. You are right , Sex should be fun and safe but over the years it has become more of a chore to the point that I don't even try much any more. I do try to talk to her every now and then and it seems to me that her fire just isn't there, in other words there seems to be a tremendous lack of desire most of the time and if we do do anything there's not much passion there on her part. Ever try to fuck someone who wasn't there? She takes meds for depression and I know that is part of it but I have come to a point that I need much more that I'm getting and I really don't know how to get blood out of a turnip so to speak. I do still love her if I didn't I'd be gone and she says she loves me but I'm really not sure anymore. It's not just spanking... if she can't handle that, then ok I resepct that but I need loving, I need to be hugged, I need to be told I'm loved, I need to be touched and I need sex. There is still fire in my furnace. I have always been told that I'm above average in the lover dept, even by her years ago. I feel I'm a loving husband and carry more than my load so I don't understand the problem with fucking like minks, spanking ass fingering ass, sucking my dick , I'm all for a healthy sex life. I'll do about anything she ask, ....all she has to do is ask as long as it's not filthy. I just want a healthy sex life with my wife and the truth is it's just not there. I'm about ready to look elsewhere which I've never wanted to do but I don't know how to turn this around.

I have been dealing with a depressed wife for 17 years. Her problems have all but destroyed our marriage and sex is almost a thing of the past. I have been supportave in every way i can think of and it doesn't change anything for the better. I know how you feel....I wear the shoe. But I am married and have a handicapped child who I won't leave and from what i understand you are dealing with a girlfreind. Knowing what i know now If I were in a dateing relationship with that problem I'd get out....sorry...but I've been in far too long and indured too much pain and I really don't believe it gets better for most people. If I were going to give you advice speaking from experince I say don't wait till you get her preg. because then it's another story. I'm not trying to be mean but I've been doing all the loving far too long and I know how it feels....it sucks for me and I'm about on my last too. Just my thoughts.....good luck

I think a hairy pussy is really sexy . I dunno, the hair just adds something to the experience for me and I know for me when my wife strokes my pubic hair while she gives me a blow job it adds to the experience. I like to stroke her hair too when I play with her clit and she really loves it. But I have had bald women too and that is also very sexy.