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Hi everyone,
I could use some help. There is no passion in my marriage and i'm not sure what to do about it. I love my husband but it seems like he doesn't want to even try. We do have sex but its like wham bam and its over no real kissing or touching or anything. I have tried lingerie,candles, making a nice romantic dinner , a few toys. Stuff like that but it makes no differance.I try and tell him i want more romance and passion but he says he is not romantic as if that should fix everything. I'm sorry to come on here and vent but i really don't have anyone to talk to about this
I feel like no one understands and I'm unhappy.Does anyone have any ideas on how to light the fire?I just want him to want me like I want him.
Thank you so much for listening. Sorry to be a downer
but thought maybe someone may have some advice for me Thanks
Hey Trista, I don't have any advice for you, but I do want to tell you to feel free to vent all you want to. There is always someone here who will know what to tell you. Howard, for example, is one of those people. Anyway, dont feel bad and think you are a downer. No one here will think that of you. I hope everything works out for you!
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She is 45 and doesn't plan to have kids, and I certainly don't. She has told me that her ex never told her "no" or put his foot down with limits on her dogs. It was if she was telling me she wishes her ex would have said enough is enough. Emotinally delicate is the word. VERY sensitive. I let go on her (just being honest, not yelling or anything) the other day and told her it annoys the shit out of me when we're on the couch just trying to snuggle with each other and her dogs are all over the couch on us. Like you said, they are dogs, not people. In the end, I know I'm second in her life after her dogs, but thats something I have to deal with.
Telecom
Oh Telecom, I feel bad for you. You should be first in her life. I do understand how she feels as I too have been in her situation (not with dogs but emotionally). You do have to deal with it to be with her but it still sucks, you deserve better. Not that she isn't wonderful, just don't sell yourself short. There is only so much you can give up for someone else. Don't let it get to the point where it is all about her and her needs. You have them too.
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1) Ever been to a strip club ?
yes
2) Ever been to a bar?
yes
3) Ever been kicked out of a bar or a club?
no
4) Ever been so drunk you had to be carried out of somewhere?
sure
5) Kissed someone of the same sex?
absolutely
6) Thrown up from drinking too much?
yes
7) Had sex in a car?
Yes
8) Had sex at the beach?
never but i will
9) Had sex in a movie theater?
oral only
10) Had sex in a bathroom?
of course
11) Had sex at work?
often
12) Have you ever been in an "adult" store?
sure
13) Bought something from an adult store?
Yes!!!
14) Have you spent over $100.00 in one visit to the adult store?
never
16) Is there anyone on your friends list you would ever consider?
a few
17) Have you been caught having sex?
Yes
18) Are your breasts real?
no they aren't but they are FABULOUS!!!
19) Have you ever kissed a stranger?
Yes
20) Does anyone have naughty pics of you?
yes, i just wish i had copies!!!
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I see that you have made a lot of sacrifices for your girlfriend and have to put up with a lot. You do it because you love her and that is very respectful, but she has to sacrifice as well. With a little time and effort, she can crate train her little dogs. I have done it and so have several people I know. It's hard to get that pee smell out of anything. I know it isn't easy dealing with her condition and you seem to be doing a great job. I'm not saying that she's trying to, but don't let her walk all over you. I know she's emotionally delicate but sometimes you have to put your foot down. Just make sure she knows that those dogs are not the only ones who love her. I'm sure she loves them a whole lot but they are not people. When she has children, she will understand that.
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A friend who lives very far away and I never get to see suggested roleplaying. I have never done this before and feel so stupid. Anyone have some tips? He wants to do student/teacher and I am clueless as to what to say. I don't want to sound stupid. Come on Howard, Tyger, Mikayla, everyone else, I know you all can help me.
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Well i did ask her. She said that she was open for anything. The only thing is she is only the second female ive been with in my 31 years of living. So im not really to sure on what to do. Please give me some ideas. Also we have been together for a year and have made love plenty of times.
Handcuff her to the bed. Role play. Walk through the door and without saying a word, take her right where she is. Watch a movie and do exactly what they do. Oh, you are a lucky man, you're gonna have FUN!!!!
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I feel bad for ya steveo. Sometimes no matter what you do, it isn't enough. I think the damage has been done and it doesn't look like your wife appreciates your efforts to fix it. She needs to stay the heck away from this man. The whole internet relationship is a fantasy that no one in her real life can compete with. Just don't blame yourself. Don't know what else to tell ya other than she needs to change, just like you did. I hope everything works out for ya, keep us posted.
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If someone likes you enough to see them in the first place, he won't care what they look like. He's just gonna be happy he's seeing them at all.
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Try doing it when you're going down on her. Just when she's about to have an orgasm, pull it out slowly. Oh my GOODNESS!!! That is REALLY good! Really, it's Earth shattering.
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I had to chime in on this since my first "real" time with a woman was not very long ago. By with a woman I mean we went down on each other. First, she knew I had never done it before. I think she was intrugued. I did to her what I like to be done to me. With three people, there is always something to do. Most of the time you will probably either be giving or recieving oral sex or be actually having sex. Usually two of those at the same time. Since they've already done it, they will likely take the lead. Just do what feels natural and have fun. Think about it a lot first and try to be sure things won't be weird after. My soon-to-be ex and I had a few sexy trysts with a couple we knew. Now that it is all over, I kind of think our friendship is as well. Really though, have fun. Hookin' up with chicks is FUN!!!
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I'm getting a divorce, so I'm FREEEEEEEEEEEE!
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How about a guy who finds you in the kitchen, sits down on the floor, and give you head while you are doing dishes, or working on dinner? Or massages your back, and breasts and ass before having intercourse with you, all the time with you busy doing something in the sink and facing away from him. When you cum, he licks you dry, then gets a warm wash cloth and washes you, and then dries you before kissing you behind your ear, and telling you how much he loves you, and how he can't wait to make love to you again.? I would think that would be a much better fantasy, and one you could share with your husband so it might just become a reality.
Howard
That'll work. Where can I find him?
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Here's my new fantasy, it may sound lame but it's what I want. To be with a man who appreciates and respects me. One who will play video games with me all day and then fuck the hell out of me all night. One who appreciates it when I bring him a beer and pretzels and give him a good blow job while he watches a football game, not expects it. Probably not too sexy but a man like that would be hot to me.
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Not me, I'd have you in a death grip. I'm gonna ask my wife to dye her pubic hair blue though (the one she still has) ha ha, I'm not serious. Ya just ruined it with the bitch stuff. With all due respect, You can do all the stuff you mentioned and then totaly blow it with fussin. Don't misunderstand, please, don't misunderstand, it sounds like from what you say that you carried more than your load in the relationship. However, in my opinion, both genders need to try to be tactful it their complaints because if we come across as assholes or bitches the rest don't mean much. I can be a bitch sometimes too and i'm a man. Men sometimes think that ya'll are bein a bitch when ya'll say yore just trying to talk. Then we puff up, raise our hackles, pooch our lips out, and start cussin real loud and stompin our feet, slammin doors , ya'll ain't gettin us by god. Timeing is everything when launching your hatchet job. Then we need to listen better. If you can adhere to all this advice then you're better than I am. Whatcha cooKing, I'm on my way.
The best to you;
lickapus
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a bitch all of the time. Very rare actually. I am a very loving, touchy-feely kind of person who will do anything for anyone. It takes a lot for the bitch to come out. I kept my mouth shut (unless he rattled his zipper as he used to say) for too long. Seriously, the best part is if my kids and I want hamburgers, we can by God have hamburgers. With him it was "I'm hungry for a hamburger" and he'd say "Not tonight, I want lasagna". Tonight we're having homemade pizza and everyone's invited!
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Assuming that everything (or even most of it) is true( and I'm assuming it is) then that guy has no idea what he has just lost. You sound like a prize catch and I'm sure that if you want someone else you won't have much trouble finding them.
Men can be real assholes and be masters at taking others for granted sometimes. Sounds like to me that he took you for granted and assumed you "owed" him the things you mentioned.
I've been married longer that most people here are old and my wife and I don't "owe" each other a damn thing....I do for her , and she does for me, because we love and resepct each other.
I've watched several friends marriages fall apart over the years for the same reasons yours seems to have. Emotional connection, as far as I'm concerned, is the battery that starts the rest of the marital/romantic entanglement.
For this guy, a woman can fuck like a porn star, cook like a chief, suck the chrome off a trailer hitch, clean like a maid ect,ect. but if she isn't there, then the relationship sucks. Been there, done that. Batched it for 20+ years.
There are decent "others" out there who would love to have someone who is as you describe yourself. Ya didn't say ya wanted anyone but if you ever do sounds like ya got it going on.....including tax...$1.99 Likapus
You are cracking me up!
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I really appreciate the advice you all! Just wanted to give everyone a little update. I filed for divorce. The nice act was a load of crap. It didn't last. He was worse than before. He started accusing me of sleeping with other men. Uh, when in the crap would I have time have a freaking affair?!?! I guess at 3:00 in the morning when I'm running my butt off trying to look good for him! I had enough when he refused to go to see a counselor. I am happier than I have ever been (other than when i had my babies!) even though we are having financial trouble. As long as I'm away from that jerk, i'll live under a bridge if I have to. No really, we aren't doing too bad. At least now I'm not on my hands and knees every day scrubbing the floor! NOW THIS IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT!!!
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Maybe she did it because she knew it would hurt you worse than if she just had strait up sex. I'm sure she wasn't planning on you finding out and she may not have even realized why she did it. Kind of like "ha ha, I won't swallow with you but I will with this guy and if you ever knew you'd throw a fit." That might not be it but I know when I was having problems in my marriage and was talking to an old boyfriend, I told him things I have never told my husband. I did it just to be mean without him knowing. I hope that came out right and I hope you get everythign worked out.
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My friend came over yesterday to do my hair for a Christmas party. We've known each other since college and have had sex a couple of times with our husbands watching. This time we were all alone. I showed her the stories written by prodriver and she looked at me half way through the second one and said "Wanna go play?" We went into the bedroom and undressed. She lay down on the bed with her ass on the edge and her legs hanging off. Her pussy was already extremely wet. I spread her lucious lips apart and began by kissing and licking the insides of her legs and all around her thick pussy lips, intentionally avoiding her clit. I gradually got more agressive and began nibbling and tounge kissing her pussy. Then I went into an all out tounge fuck all the while rubbing her ass hole and teasing it with the tip of my finger. Her hips were thrusting into my face and she was playing with my hair and moaning. I plunged four fingers as deep insode of her as I could and sucked the hell out of her swelling clit. In about 60 seconds she exploded into orgasm. My mouth was filled with her juices. She slid off the bed and onto the floor. I spread my legs and lowered myself onto her mouth. The second I felt her warm tongue on my pussy, I came harder than I had ever come before. We both lay on the floor and she rolled over and gave me the softest, most passionate kiss I have ever had. It must have lasted five minutes, oh it was so nice. We went and took a shower and washed each others hair and bodies. I'm waiting for the right time to tell my husband, when the kids are away because I know he will love to hear about it.
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LOL
The strangest thing I have ever seen was a dildo at a local adult toy store.
It stood 3 and a half feet high and was easily as big around as a babys head, it really was a true novelty item.
The store used to run a "contest", if you could insert this toy past the head, you could have it for free.
Needless to say, very few ever tried.
One day I was there talking to a relative of mine who happened to work there, when this woman came in, announced she wanted to participate in the contest.
My relative grabbed some stuff, cleaned it up, and said "have at it"
I'll be damned if she didn't get that toy in past the head.
She picked it up, put it in the passangers seat of her car, seatbelted it in, and laughed the whole way out of the driveway.
Everyone at the store was in shock for a good 20 minutes or so.
The all time strangest thing that has made me go WTF?!
was a blow up sheep doll dressed a lovely lacy black bra and crotchless panties.
How did you know she actually did it? Did you see her do it? Sounds painful!! Reverse childbirth, AHHHH!!!
The funniest thing I have seen is a blue, gel, double headed dildo. It was about three feet long and maybe a foot in diameter. My friend bought it and used to wear it like a feather boa to dance clubs.
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I'm happy to know that things are better for you two. I'm sorry that no one agrees with her living with you. It would be different if this were ten years ago and your children were younger, but this is your decision and they will have to deal with it.
I agree about working out and eating right. Even my doctor told me that exercise helps with depression.
I hope you continue to do well, thanks for the update, I guess I missed the first one.
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Can you give us an update? I have thought a lot about this and really hope everything is working out.
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Can you give us an update? I hope everything is working out.
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I love your brief: about your last sexual encounter, Mmmmm bent over the Desk. HOW HOT!!! Soooo you got excited reading my stories. I think I can write 1 more tonight, But then I will be out of town for about five days. Thank you for the compliment, Your awesome willtryanything!! In the office that is Soooo sexy
We try to make the office thing happen once every week or two. It would be difficult to find a surface in that place that hasn't been christened. I always spray everything down with Lysol while my husband is cleaning up though. That part isn't too sexy but I do it anyway.
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our relationship has been magnificent until this. this is the only problem we have had. it upset me so bad the first time he asked that I had a nervous break down, (was crying so hard that I threw up, got a headache so bad I couldn't see, and then passed out for 2 hours). he promised me he would let it go and not ask me again. but now he wants me to have a threesome, still. I know its a guy fantasy, but why do we have to live it out? I don't want him with another girl, if this happens I am going to be crushed and not be able to trust him again. I have told him in these exact world how much I don't want this but he thinks that b/c I am curious about other girls it would be good. how else do I get him to see that this will ruin our relationship? I don't want to leave him, but if we have a threesome I can't stay (I told him that too and he still thinks he can change my mind) :-(
Here's my two cents, it won't be as good as the other three but here goes anyway. It's one thing for him to want to see you with another woman but a totally different one to want to be with one himself. He shouldn't try to pressure you into doing something like that. Sure lots of wome think about it but when it comes down to doing it, it's scarey. I just think he's thinking with his head, and not the one that rests on his shoulders. It is very insensitive for him to bring it up after he knew how you reacted before. I think you need to reevaluate the whole thing with this joker.
I feel like no one understands and I'm unhappy.
I need some good material!
Dating A Married Woman
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I have to agree with Mikayla. I think the security is what she is staying with her husband for. Give her time. Maybe take a little break from talking, a few days maybe, so she can see how much she misses you. I know it is very stressful (hate to say it but I have gone and gotten myself into a similar situation with a man) but if she is the love of your life, she is worth waiting for, at least for a little while, just don't wait too long, you could pass up a good opportunity. I hope everything works out for you. Please keep us posted.