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I have to agree with Mikayla. I think the security is what she is staying with her husband for. Give her time. Maybe take a little break from talking, a few days maybe, so she can see how much she misses you. I know it is very stressful (hate to say it but I have gone and gotten myself into a similar situation with a man) but if she is the love of your life, she is worth waiting for, at least for a little while, just don't wait too long, you could pass up a good opportunity. I hope everything works out for you. Please keep us posted.

Hey Trista, I don't have any advice for you, but I do want to tell you to feel free to vent all you want to. There is always someone here who will know what to tell you. Howard, for example, is one of those people. Anyway, dont feel bad and think you are a downer. No one here will think that of you. I hope everything works out for you!

Oh Telecom, I feel bad for you. You should be first in her life. I do understand how she feels as I too have been in her situation (not with dogs but emotionally). You do have to deal with it to be with her but it still sucks, you deserve better. Not that she isn't wonderful, just don't sell yourself short. There is only so much you can give up for someone else. Don't let it get to the point where it is all about her and her needs. You have them too.

I see that you have made a lot of sacrifices for your girlfriend and have to put up with a lot. You do it because you love her and that is very respectful, but she has to sacrifice as well. With a little time and effort, she can crate train her little dogs. I have done it and so have several people I know. It's hard to get that pee smell out of anything. I know it isn't easy dealing with her condition and you seem to be doing a great job. I'm not saying that she's trying to, but don't let her walk all over you. I know she's emotionally delicate but sometimes you have to put your foot down. Just make sure she knows that those dogs are not the only ones who love her. I'm sure she loves them a whole lot but they are not people. When she has children, she will understand that.

A friend who lives very far away and I never get to see suggested roleplaying. I have never done this before and feel so stupid. Anyone have some tips? He wants to do student/teacher and I am clueless as to what to say. I don't want to sound stupid. Come on Howard, Tyger, Mikayla, everyone else, I know you all can help me. I need some good material!

Handcuff her to the bed. Role play. Walk through the door and without saying a word, take her right where she is. Watch a movie and do exactly what they do. Oh, you are a lucky man, you're gonna have FUN!!!!

I feel bad for ya steveo. Sometimes no matter what you do, it isn't enough. I think the damage has been done and it doesn't look like your wife appreciates your efforts to fix it. She needs to stay the heck away from this man. The whole internet relationship is a fantasy that no one in her real life can compete with. Just don't blame yourself. Don't know what else to tell ya other than she needs to change, just like you did. I hope everything works out for ya, keep us posted.

If someone likes you enough to see them in the first place, he won't care what they look like. He's just gonna be happy he's seeing them at all.

Try doing it when you're going down on her. Just when she's about to have an orgasm, pull it out slowly. Oh my GOODNESS!!! That is REALLY good! Really, it's Earth shattering.

I had to chime in on this since my first "real" time with a woman was not very long ago. By with a woman I mean we went down on each other. First, she knew I had never done it before. I think she was intrugued. I did to her what I like to be done to me. With three people, there is always something to do. Most of the time you will probably either be giving or recieving oral sex or be actually having sex. Usually two of those at the same time. Since they've already done it, they will likely take the lead. Just do what feels natural and have fun. Think about it a lot first and try to be sure things won't be weird after. My soon-to-be ex and I had a few sexy trysts with a couple we knew. Now that it is all over, I kind of think our friendship is as well. Really though, have fun. Hookin' up with chicks is FUN!!!

I'm getting a divorce, so I'm FREEEEEEEEEEEE!

That'll work. Where can I find him?

Here's my new fantasy, it may sound lame but it's what I want. To be with a man who appreciates and respects me. One who will play video games with me all day and then fuck the hell out of me all night. One who appreciates it when I bring him a beer and pretzels and give him a good blow job while he watches a football game, not expects it. Probably not too sexy but a man like that would be hot to me.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not a bitch all of the time. Very rare actually. I am a very loving, touchy-feely kind of person who will do anything for anyone. It takes a lot for the bitch to come out. I kept my mouth shut (unless he rattled his zipper as he used to say) for too long. Seriously, the best part is if my kids and I want hamburgers, we can by God have hamburgers. With him it was "I'm hungry for a hamburger" and he'd say "Not tonight, I want lasagna". Tonight we're having homemade pizza and everyone's invited!

You are cracking me up! I can be a real bitch sometimes. Maybe he can trade a fat lazy slob for me.

I really appreciate the advice you all! Just wanted to give everyone a little update. I filed for divorce. The nice act was a load of crap. It didn't last. He was worse than before. He started accusing me of sleeping with other men. Uh, when in the crap would I have time have a freaking affair?!?! I guess at 3:00 in the morning when I'm running my butt off trying to look good for him! I had enough when he refused to go to see a counselor. I am happier than I have ever been (other than when i had my babies!) even though we are having financial trouble. As long as I'm away from that jerk, i'll live under a bridge if I have to. No really, we aren't doing too bad. At least now I'm not on my hands and knees every day scrubbing the floor! NOW THIS IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT!!!

Maybe she did it because she knew it would hurt you worse than if she just had strait up sex. I'm sure she wasn't planning on you finding out and she may not have even realized why she did it. Kind of like "ha ha, I won't swallow with you but I will with this guy and if you ever knew you'd throw a fit." That might not be it but I know when I was having problems in my marriage and was talking to an old boyfriend, I told him things I have never told my husband. I did it just to be mean without him knowing. I hope that came out right and I hope you get everythign worked out.

My friend came over yesterday to do my hair for a Christmas party. We've known each other since college and have had sex a couple of times with our husbands watching. This time we were all alone. I showed her the stories written by prodriver and she looked at me half way through the second one and said "Wanna go play?" We went into the bedroom and undressed. She lay down on the bed with her ass on the edge and her legs hanging off. Her pussy was already extremely wet. I spread her lucious lips apart and began by kissing and licking the insides of her legs and all around her thick pussy lips, intentionally avoiding her clit. I gradually got more agressive and began nibbling and tounge kissing her pussy. Then I went into an all out tounge fuck all the while rubbing her ass hole and teasing it with the tip of my finger. Her hips were thrusting into my face and she was playing with my hair and moaning. I plunged four fingers as deep insode of her as I could and sucked the hell out of her swelling clit. In about 60 seconds she exploded into orgasm. My mouth was filled with her juices. She slid off the bed and onto the floor. I spread my legs and lowered myself onto her mouth. The second I felt her warm tongue on my pussy, I came harder than I had ever come before. We both lay on the floor and she rolled over and gave me the softest, most passionate kiss I have ever had. It must have lasted five minutes, oh it was so nice. We went and took a shower and washed each others hair and bodies. I'm waiting for the right time to tell my husband, when the kids are away because I know he will love to hear about it.

How did you know she actually did it? Did you see her do it? Sounds painful!! Reverse childbirth, AHHHH!!! The funniest thing I have seen is a blue, gel, double headed dildo. It was about three feet long and maybe a foot in diameter. My friend bought it and used to wear it like a feather boa to dance clubs.

I'm happy to know that things are better for you two. I'm sorry that no one agrees with her living with you. It would be different if this were ten years ago and your children were younger, but this is your decision and they will have to deal with it. I agree about working out and eating right. Even my doctor told me that exercise helps with depression. I hope you continue to do well, thanks for the update, I guess I missed the first one.

Can you give us an update? I have thought a lot about this and really hope everything is working out.

Can you give us an update? I hope everything is working out.

We try to make the office thing happen once every week or two. It would be difficult to find a surface in that place that hasn't been christened. I always spray everything down with Lysol while my husband is cleaning up though. That part isn't too sexy but I do it anyway.

Here's my two cents, it won't be as good as the other three but here goes anyway. It's one thing for him to want to see you with another woman but a totally different one to want to be with one himself. He shouldn't try to pressure you into doing something like that. Sure lots of wome think about it but when it comes down to doing it, it's scarey. I just think he's thinking with his head, and not the one that rests on his shoulders. It is very insensitive for him to bring it up after he knew how you reacted before. I think you need to reevaluate the whole thing with this joker.