TySexyNY

I'm new to anal and have a few concerns. 1) When we do it the missionary way or with me riding him it doesn't hurt that bad. But when we try it doggy style it is unbearable... Any suggestions? 2) Afterwards, I feel so gassy & when I go to the bathroom for the rest of the night and the next day I keep having BM's. Any answer's for that? Why does that happen?

My husband has hounded me for years to try anal sex. He has used his finger's to try & 'stretch' me as he says. I've tried lubricant, anal-ease, saliva, etc etc, But it has always been excruciating pain when he has tried to actually enter me. We finally did it from the side one time but he wasn't fully erect but it still hurt real bad. Does anyone have any suggestions on.... technique, lubricant, easier relief so as it doesn't hurt so bad?