I need to know why I can't orgisam without a vibrator on my clit I would love to have one with the pinis inside. Can someone answer this for me?? I love sex and want it all the time my husband not a seyal person and I try to get him to have sex with me so he has to take a pill to get it up. I'm 155 lb size 9-10 blond hair & brown eyes and fill like I don't turn him on any more. What am I to do?? Classie Lady