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Ok, I don't do my kegels what so ever and need to start doing them. I bought 2 different ben wa balls to try-the 4 on a string and 2 little weighted ones. I tried the 4 on a string and didn't think that they would fit. am I supposed to shove them way up or what? I decided to try the smaller ones. How far up do I need to push them up. I know they will fall out since I don't practice kegels-How should i start off then. Sitting down with them in for lets say a week until my muscles get a little stronger or keep trying while walking. It just seems like every few steps they fall out. D

My husband is super ticklish. I havn't read anything on mens erogenous zones, or do they have any? Can anyone give me some ideas..... D

I have just purchased the ben wa balls on a string and received them in the mail. I was surprised to see how big they are. I am nervous that they will not fit and stay up there. One of the reasons I thought I would try them is to help me with my Kegels. I don't do them and need to start up. Did I purchase the wrong ones. Should I cut the string to just make 2 balls instead. I am new to this sex toy thing.I have been reading up about these from this board and have heard they also can make you orgasm. Which is a plus since I have a hard time with orgasms... Should I be thinking of using something else for my Kegels. D