kburkhal66

Anything by Enigma is great but I especially like 'TNT for the Brain'.

Thanks for your input! Who can go wrong with Luther Vandross, Barry White, Enya, etc. We even like a little dirty hip-hop from time to time as well. I will check out Nuspirit-Helsinki also; it looks interesting. Music is not for everyone or every situation; I agree. Music never replaces the interaction between us. On that point, I agree with Howard. However, life is busy, stressful, tiresome, and much more. Music often allows for the transition between our busy lives and the intimate, loving contact we need to stay connected and strong. The right music bridges the gap, breaks through the walls of work, parenting, bills, etc. and creates an environment where two people can escape from reality and share a moment protected and private. Music also works wonders in masking our "love langauge" in a small house with kids, one of which is fast approaching junior high. ;-)

Two things come to mind: 1) Keeping everything below the belt neatly trimmed and shaved - kinda like framing a picture. A great frame never overpowers the picture, but it sure can make it come alive LOL. 2) Quality t-shirts and briefs - no Hanes or Fruit of the Loom for this guy! Nothing better than wearing something that looks great, feels great, and catches the eye of that someone special.

I'm new to this site and must say I've learned a lot in the last few weeks. The idea of spicing up our sex life with some 'sexual aides' has been on my mind for a while, but didn't know where to start. Thanks for all the great tips, techniques, and honesty. In fact, I bought my wife her first toy for Christmas this year. She was a little skeptical at first but is now looking forward to experimenting with it. Now my question: What kind of music do you like to make love to and/or have sex (may be 2 different types...). My wife likes Enigma but only the Love Sensuality Devotion: Greatest Hits. The other albums are just not the same. I'm looking for something new to try. Any ideas?