Thanks for all the good advice, I would never pressure her into anything...I've never been a pushy person and I hope it didn't come off that way in my original post...I was just curious about this and you all have been very helpful. I certainly don't want to put any pressure on her, that is why I hadn't brought it up at all, I want her to feel totally comfortable and I want what is best for our baby, I could care less about my needs!!! I thank you all for the helpful information and as soon as we find out the sex of the baby, I will let you know! Thanks again and any other tips on how to keep her happy and make things easier would be greatly appercaited!