timsolady

Just to tell you from my experience, I've been with my husband for 24 years, since I was 17 years old. Four months ago I took a good job out of state, 1200 miles away. We did talk on the phone quite a bit but mostly because I was the one who took care of everything, kids, bills etc. By the end of the second week, he told me that he couldn't believe how much he missed me. He's been out here twice for a few days at a time and I've been there twice for a few days each time. He's fallen completely in love with me all over again, now when we see each other we can't stand to be apart, the times we are at work and the other is waiting feels like an eternity. We've talked more in the last four months than we had in 20 years. The sex is absolutely amazing, the intimacy (which was almost non existant) is so passionate, its like we are teenagers again, when we aren't working we are on the phone with each other. We've rediscovered the love and passion that was drifting away, you get so caught up in raising kids, paying bills, and life that you forget about the person you fell in love with so long ago. Now that the kids are almost all raised and its just us again, we've fallen in love all over again. He is now taking the time to do all the little things that mean so much to me that he just either ignored or just didn't do anymore, he will be able to move out here with me in another two months after our youngest graduates, but this definitly was the kick in the ass that our relationship needed. I feel very blessed to have the man I fell in love with so long ago, I knew he was still in there, life just got in the way.