Hi, I'm new to the forum, this is my first post. I am 39 and will be married 9 years this coming May. I am new to sex toys, I have always felt embaressed to try any. Anyway, I just purchased 2 but have not used them yet. My question/problem is this. I have Fibromyalgia. Because of this I am extremly sensitive "down there". My Dr told me the Fibromyalgia is why intercourse is painful for me. Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do to make things better for me? Thanks.