lifeguard23

When you're going at it, how rough do you like to get? i.e. hair pulled, spank on the ass, dirty talk

15 for a bj 18 for sex 7 partners for sex

So here's the deal. I was dating a girl "Jen". We spent a lot of time together for about a month and a half but she was still attached to her ex that she dated for about 4 years. They had been broken up for about 6 months before we started dating. "Jen" and I had sex about 10-12 times. We are in college and started dating just before winter break and didn't see each other for very much for about 2 weeks. Anyways i was as patient as I could be with the whole ex thing, i'm not really the jealous type. One night we were drunk, her a lot more than me, and her phone kept ringing and beepeing from phone calls and text messages. so i opened her phone and had a look cause i couldnt go to sleep with all that. i saw that she had talked to him about 3 times as much as she had talked to me over about a week period and had close to 100 text to and from him over about a 4 day period. i had no idea it was that much. I spent the rest of the night on the futon and the next day i told her what the deal was and that i didn't think it could work with that going on and that we should just be friends. She was sad but understood.About two weeks later I start talking to a girl "Ashley" who I had dated for a short time about a year ago, and we had both just ghotten out of serious realtionships at the time and we both felt after a bout a month we were moving too fast and needed to slow it down, well slow down meant she got back together with her ex. Now "ashley" and her bf have been broken up for about 3 months and she and i started hanging out a lot and are more attracted to each other now more than ever. Things are really going good. however we havent had sex and it's been about a month now that we've been dating. I get text and phone calls from "Jen" all the time saying that if i ever need any help with my "needs" etc. that she'd be willing to help out cause she is just as sexually frusterated as I am right now. I've asked "Ashley" if she considers us boyfriend and girlfriend and she just either ignores me or changes the subject. I don't want to push her away so i just let it be. While i don't think sex is a everything in a relationship it is a big part for me. So here's my question after all of that. If I hook up with "Jen" while "talking" to "Ashley" would you consider it cheating?