DonnaFlo

Wow, Thanks everyone!! I really appreciate the advice. lol .. thought I was loosing my fucking mind! I am not saying im a sexual superstar or anything but I do tend to get a bit wild if Im hot, dont most ppl? anyway I agree with you all. I want to date a guy, have a great relationship and with awesome sex.

Hey everyone, After reading some one the threads and posts and junk.. I like this site alot! maybe you can give me some advice on this subject which is bothering me some. I asked a guy friend for advice and this is what I got. He explained datable and fuckable. and all it did was piss me off. some men make no sense. ok. I was told that guys like a relationship with a "nice girl". Someone they can take home to their mother. now myself, I have no children so I'm wondering if mother can tell (maybe by smell or physic ability) if a girl is naughty in bed. I was told that if a girl is too wild in bed. IE.. likes having hair grabbed and ass smacked and maybe anal, then she is straight into the fuckable catagory. If a girl might at some point like another girl in bed, then straight to fuckable only. the best part of this shit is this.. when the guy wants something a little more interesting he's going to probably cheat and find a girl not like the one he has at home. someone a little more frisky in the sack. WTF! so basically I was told * dont sleep with a guy right away (I would not anyway, but is there a special time period??) * dont give awesome head.. just maybe good. * dont get too kinky * dont want it all the time either. cause then guys will wonder what you're doig when they're not around. and this was told to me by a level headed, professional, easy going friend of mine. he said it might suck but it's what guys do, what he does and his friends all agree.. and I asked around. all the guys thought this way. Im going to have to pretend to be a bit lame in bed to get a good guy, only to be cheated on for the girl I am inside? this information for a girl who is separated and about to be divorced and back in the dating scene after some time.. not good information. ok. your turn. advise away please. lol Im looking for a new guy. I dont expect sex to always be wild animal lusting.. but once in a while I would like it to be amazing.. Got to have that sometimes, just as much as you need the tender loving. Thanks!!! D