I was reading the post about sharing toys. Sharing toys is fine as long as they are cleaned properly. First off ussing an antibacterial soap is actually bad for most women that can cause yeast infection if not propely rinsed. Second off most companies sell a toy cleanser this toy cleanser is safe to use for all vibrators. The jelly vibrators and some gigi will actualy turn sticky and will melt with antibacterial soap. The onle vibrators I Know you can use soap on is the bullet and the glass vibrators. Please if you are using anti soap then stop, check some websites for cleanser and your vibrators should last a long time.