Dear Folks, I'm new to tootimid, and this is my first post. First, I thank everyone for your sharing and caring attitudes, pointers, advice and information all over these forums. Wonderful! I try lots of different things. It may not sound like much, but lately my favorite is every week or two I get a thick, soft down comforter and pillow, clean off the bar, and help my wife aboard and lay her back. With the bar lights on very bright, I carefully groom and shave her. She loves to watch how careful and intent I am! Once done, I gently wash, rinse and dry her off. My rewards are manyfold: I absolutely love doing it; a thorough job enabling her to only lightly trim until next time. I am amazed how beautiful and sexy my wife is. I turn the lights down a little lower, and spend 1/2 to 1 hour bringing her to ecstasy orally - my absolute favorite and I feel so fulfilled and gratified! Lastly, I end up absolutely dripping with precum, ten times what I normally produce with any other foreplay, which my wife says is very sweet for some reason. It must be, because she always eagerly wants to reciprocate when I lift her down once her strength finally returns. It also encourages great communication, so important as billy said. This is one of the hottest things we've done lately.
