kiki356

Hey there. I'm a 21 F and I haven't had an orgasm. I know tons of people (mostly women) write in about not being able to orgasm. I've read all these posts, I've read the Sex Ed articles here, and I still need help. My problem is that I almost get there, but not quite. I've used my hands, my boyfriend, and a vibrator. I've tried direct contact, indirect contact, being more gentle, being more aggressive, almost everything. Everything will feel good and I'll find a certain spot and I can feel it building up, but once it gets to where I think it should "explode", nothing happens. It just sort of stops feeling, and then it feels really uncomfortable to touch any erogenous zones for a few minutes afterwards. I've tried almost getting to that point and then backing off and then trying again to see if that would work, and so far nothing has. I'm wondering if it's a sort of medical problem because I have heard that others have this too. It's not a psychological thing because I don't have trouble letting go and I thought it was psychological at first and learned how to relax and not concentrate on having one and just being with my boyfriend, but that doesn't work either. Any advice, medical help or similar stories?