Thank you to the both of you. We'll try warming it up first to see if that makes a difference. My girlfriend has never really masterbated or had an orgasm, and so very shy about. We've talked about it and she wants to try new things and obviously does want to have an orgasm. She gets really close sometimes when i'm touching her clit but then its too sensitive for her and hurts if i touch her. We're going away for a long week end and I have brought her a little bullet so will see if that is good for her. I'll have a read through your articles, but thanks once again.