My favorite toy isn't a "normal" toy. My wife has a vibrator, but she's a little sexually inhibited and doesn't enjoy it all that much (at least that's what she tells me). However, we do enjoy my cock ring. She can tell a difference in size and I defenately stay harder longer. She even gets excited when I'm looking in the nightstand for it. We use it once or twice a week. We would use it more often, but you have to be ready to use a cock ring. You can't just put on a steel cock ring and roll over in the bed. You have to be AGRESSIVE!