I must say simple seems to be better with my wife and I. With 4 kids in the house the bedroom seems to be where all the action is. Oh and bedroom door locks are a must! LOL! We really enjoy using the Ultra Smooth Vibrator. Even though it is basic it really gets her ready, to the point of her begging for me. I also really enjoy using it on her and when she uses it while we are having sex. Well that is the icing on the cake.