imjustagirl728

My husband and I share and adventursome sex life, but I know that he maintains chat relationships online. I believe he thinks of it much like viewing porn. But I feel differently. These are real people who are actively responding to him---not acting out a pre-planned scene. I often end up feeling as though I must not be giving him all he needs. I'm not sure that I see him giving this up. His views on sex are very liberal. How do I come to terms?