Jen: My wife and I have just started using a clit stimulator during intercourse and the results have been fantastic. For the first time, she comes regularly when I am inside her. The only problem is the stimulator we are using is painful for me to put on and remove, even using lube. My width isn't gargantuan, but it appears to be too big for the average sex toy. Is there any place I can look for toys desiged for the xtra large (but not xtra, xtra large) man? I can't seem to find anything that addresses this issue in the usual toy catalogues, and I'd rather not go through the expense of trial and error. Any advice?