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  1. Welcome to the forums, there are plenty of anal play toys on the site for all levels. I know there are a couple of inflatable that you pump up after insertion to enlarge them. I would warn you about some things going in, though. Mainstream market Produce is generally irradiated but typically can have trace pesticides and what not. No matter what you use, ensure you are washing thoroughly. I know there are others here who can answer your anal questions far better than I, but I did wish to say welcome.

    Randy

  2. Comfort comes with confidence. Confidence comes with knowledge. You've come to the right place as there are many here who can help you. My suggestion is that where he wants you to be in control, be in control. He doesn't get to pick and choose where and when he submits. He is yours. If he doesn't perform as you ask, even when answering a question, he deserves punishment. That doesn't mean harm necessarily. You are going to have to experiment. Remember to have safe words in case things get too far. Something out of the norm like "broomstick". When gagging, be sure you have a safety gesture.

    Randy.

  3. The experience you describe is called plateauing. This isn't at all uncommon but can be self-perpetuating. You get yourself so worked up and stressed about getting off that you set yourself mental blocks to allowing it to happen. Also you say you have only recently started pleasuring yourself, in my experience that often means strict or religious upbringing to sex. Does your upbringing get in the way? Guilt can be an O-killer.

    Randy

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  4. One of my personal favorite sayings is that the only stupid question is one that is important to you and left unasked. That being said, not all women have the same feelings in their sexual organs as other women. Its funny because my wife also wanted to feel the cum but the fact of the matter is that most of the nerves are down around the entry point, the clit and the labia. After we've had unprotected sex my wife always complains that I'm leaking out of her for days. The fact of the matter is, though, that we have a very beautiful little girl and this is always the way it went and the end result speaks for itself. Keep in mind that letting it happen when it happens means a few things as well. 1. You aren't trying to time it for when you are ovulating and as such you decrease your chances. (Your body lets you know when you're ovulating by emitting vaginal secretions). 2. The longer you wait, the more troubles you might have in later life. Remember that while men regenerate their sperm every few days, women develop their eggs early in life and those eggs are constantly getting older as well. 3. The up side is that by letting it happen when it happens, sex will never become a chore. ;)

    Hope this helps.

    Randy.

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