The want and desire is fine, the road you choose to follow should you not get what you want is what is unrealistic. Don't let his lack of desire and care dictate your happiness. There comes a time when thetalking is done, the one-sided attempts at reconciliation are over, and you have to be strong enough to realize you are not married to the person you thought you were. Be strong enough to let go of the familiar, the status quo, and make your happiness another way. Randy.