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I think he was joking, he also says every bad driver he sees must be a female.And he knows better( I have a commercial DL) and he knows that word"FEMALE" bothers me. He does have a habit of exagerating some things and is very opinionated. There is the real world then there is the world according to "HIM", but really has nothing against adult stores, he's been in one with me....once, but believes people who go there must feel inadaquate. My point about his dad being a shrink, is that he still believes men don't show emotion,positive ones anyway. I know that he loves me and will give anything and eveything I want,within reason. which means as long as it require little or no emotional investment on his part.....and he doesn't have to be away from home for long. I should quit, I'm getting a liitle off topic here, but I would love to hears your thoughts.

Just a quick note. But I have good news!!! While waiting for his "meds" to kick in today I decided to break out THE JOY OF SEX an let him "catch" me reading it. At first he asked what smut I was reading.I explained it was smut and began reading a few passages to him, the he read some while sitting next to me. Well it wasn't long,he took the book from my lap and,well,it was on. All I can say is WOW!!!! All I can say I guess I just have to proceed very,very slowly and maybe I will be able to teach an old dog some new tricks! I just have to pray the conditioning from his upbringing can be overcome. The family was very religous but none of that stuck very well. I'm more concerned about the fact that his father is a retierd shrink!! Gotta run. Thanks for the help and you can bet I'll keep checkin back!!!

I wish!!! He's retierd. Though he is a big guy, he walks the treadmill 30min a day,and we hit the tennis court 1-2 days a week,when I'm done working. OK, I confess!!! I did take him to the doctor for a going over(and I talked to the doctor myself) and he's fine then got a Rx for the "little BLUE pill" which does work as far as I'm concerned but for some reason he "doesn't like" them. Then we tried the other meds available,apparently their all "the same". He swears he very attracted to me and has even said it's my fault for getting him too excited and draining all his energy. Do all men use that for an excuse to get out of sex?

Thanks for the thoughts. I wish I could get sex 2-3 times a week! I really have whine to get it once a week. He says it's not that he doesn't want to,but he's getting "old". To his credit I must say he ALWAYS takes care of me first,usually 2-3 times before he gets his.But like most men when he's done,it's over. He was married once before(for 23yrs. and she left) then a single father of 4(at home)for 10. We definitly get together different times of the day because we still have a 14yr old at home. Since he's a little old fashoned,maybe I'll try introducing something new every fews months to avoid the shock factor. Thanks! Anyone else?

Hi Everyone and Thank you, I did find some helpful suggestion. Maybe if I give you some more info, I can learn better how to handle this. I am 39and the man of my dreams is 55,a very young 55 though so I'm afraid he has matured sexually as much as he ever will. I have started reading "The Joy of Sex" in front of him and I hope he take an intrest in it as well. And I will definitly try a frank discussion about how I feel outside the bedroom. And howard4570 was so right, anything but kindly blunt would be misunderstood. Keep the suggestions coming!

Hi Everyone, I really hope someone out there can give me some advice on how to handle this situation. Up until I met my current husband(whom I love compleatly) on occasinon I liked to do party a little and have have some wild sex. Watching some really hot porn ,looking at mags, then maybe share some fantacys. I loved having toys used on me in every possible position especially while blind folded and acting out something from the movie or mag. I remarried a couple yaers ago to a man who is very much a man in bed(something I hadn't experienced in the previous 12 years) Quiet a while back I decided to buy some lube,on my own, and brought it home. He was very open to it and really liked it,and eventually used the cock shaped bottle as a sex toy, so I suggested getting a vibrator, he agreed. He is very skilled at operating it on me,and loves to watch as he works it. He even got brave enough to ask if he could work it into my ass. Just him asking almost sent me over the edge! How can work in some more adventuresome sex without him thinking I have suddenly lost my mind. He knows I used to watch some porn and has made it clear he's not into that then coments how kinky I am. He thinks I'm wild because I said I wanted him to watch while I suck him off. His idea of getting crazy is tit fucking me,or screwing my from behind.We have been together almost 6 years(married for 2) and I'm afraid it's too late to show him that other side but lately I have really begun to miss really mindblowing sex. I even ansewed an ad for a female to join a couple and will try to work something out with them. I even recently set up this new e-mail address (that he doesn't know about) hope to find someone locally to share some hot e-mail with in hopes that some time I get away by myself we can act out what we have talked about. I would love to hear any input anyone may have. Help me out before I go INSANE.

Hi,I'm new to this so please bear with me.I love toys,and have 1 dildo that my studmuffin loves to use on me. The problem is I am a little wilder than him and would love to find something(the bigger and odder the shape the better) I could use when I get my rare alone time, something I won't have to keep compleatly hiden. Also,I just recieve my first plasure balls(secretly)could someone tell me the best way to "wear" the(ie,deeply,just deep enough to stay in etc.) or maybe a wild book that noone would really notice if they didn't read it. Any info or advice would be a lot of help.