lostinnj23

Hey everyone. I'm new here and actually joined due to the problem I'm just about to share with you. As I saw on several other posts, I too suffer from the elusive lack-o-orgasm. I am 24 years old and have been quite sexually active over the years (not promiscuous but have an incredible sex drive). I LOVE sex but honestly I cannot for the life of me get off. I don't even "get to the point and stop" I just enjoy the sex and the intimate moments with the person I'm with. I get aroused, and actually wet enough to start my own lubrication company, but that's as far as it goes. Masturbation is another quandary. I cannot get myself aroused when I am not in the presense of someone else for the life of me. Masturbation bores me. I have several sex toys, in fact my roommate sells sex toys and I've tried every vibe, stimulation cream, dildo, etc known to man - nothing feels good unless its from another person. And even then, I enjoy a little stimulation at first but then my clit gets almost annoyed with the attention and it doesn't feel good anymore. Hard fast sex feels great but again, no increase in stimulation its pretty much the same across the board. I really have no clue what to do here. I can't even "find my own happy place" because it bores the hell out of me no matter what I'm watching, thinking about, or doing and I can't get aroused by myself. Men get incredibly frustrated/upset bout this fact, I know, I wish there was something I could do. I'm getting really frustrated myself honestly. My gyno says there is nothing wrong with me physically, I'm the most comfortable with me and my body than I've ever been so it's nothing mental... Any suggestions besides the normal relax and explore? Thanks all