shygal

I have to reply to this. I am the same age as you and have also had sleeping intense orgasms in my sleep. I've had them since i was about 14. I also have less intense ones with a partner and it often takes some work. I've never had a g spot orgasm but am going to try now. Also I practice lucid dreaming which makes some of my dreams veerrry interesting...sexually speaking

He decides. He brings me to orgasm then wants to penetrate and orgasms fairly quickly. I have told him i am up for anything. He aslo ejaculates outside of my body ...says it turns him on. Messy but whatever works for him ya know?

He is in his forties. hasn't been with a woman in 2 years , since seperation. Was hesitant to be intimate with me...we dated a month first. If I bring it up how should I do so? I did oral on him and he wasn't completely soft. but not exactly hard. my past lovers incl ex husband Loved oral and he seems like he can take it or leave it. He loves to do it on me though.But I enjoy giving as much as receiving and he wants to do all the giving. Again this isn't a huge deal with me...I'm more concerned for him.

I am in a new relationship. We recently became intimate.Two times.Both times he was not completely hard and had to masturbate before entering me to get hard enough and came quickly. None of this is a huge issue for me...fortunatlely he gives great head. My question is how do i address this?He is a very nice man and I don't want to make hime feel badly but I feel like we should talk about it.Is this common? I've never experienced this with a man before.

Wow thanks for all replys. I agree with Tyger...I don't need the diversion of a new man now...although my WANTS are different from my NEEDS!I know I need to get through this right now and it will take a long while I'm sure...focusing on my kid and our new life for now. Thanks again.Off to buy more batteries.......

Thanks for replys. I figured as much but I wasn't sure! The hardest part of my divorce is lack of intimacy and affection...if I had to give up my vibe I was gonna CRY!!lol

I am newly single and have been without sex for several months now and am not interested in casual sex. I've started using small vibrator to make myself orgasm almost nightly. Is there any harm in that physically? I'm afraid my clitoris is going to become desensitzed!!

Well that's what I thought but the only thing....I wasn't penetrating...nowhere near g spot...all clit. BUT...It was like a bunch of squirting...not like i was urinating, So it's a mystery. Thanks for the replys. Howard...lucky wife!!

I just joined this forum to ask this question. My husband wishes I could have more than 1 orgasm so I read the multiple orgasm article...got out my 1 and only vibrator and pushed through the pain to number 2. Great huh? NOOOO! It was ok...a lot of work...and I think I pee'd all over the bed !! Was that a female ejaculation? I would be mortified if it happened again w/ my hubby.what's up with that? thanks for any advice.