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  1. Well I have not had a TL but my husband has had a vasectomy. Pregnancy is not good for me. My body and pregnancy seem to battle and I have MAJOR complications. SO for us the safest thing was a vas for him. We have 2 children together and full custody of his daughter from a previous marriage. That being said I wanted one more child but was told it could risk my life. SO the choice was pretty much taken away from me...BUT the vasectomy was the BEST thing to do. it has made sex worry free. No more birthcontrol (i am also very fertile getting pg on the pill the first time and with one try the second). Worry freee sex anytime anywhere does a person good. So from teh standpiint of permanent birth control I say go for it....if you are 100% positive you are done with babies.

    PS-congrats on the new job!!!

  2. Ok so I am contemplating trying anal. I am interested but nervous. I have been watching some anal porn lately just to get an idea of what it would be like. Anyway my question is this....once you have anal how long does it take for your hole to go back to "normal". Some of these girls look like they have been stretched to the max and are never going to close up. Is that normal????

  3. Just had to share a funny story with you Howard. I at a Cinnabon for breakfast today...had a chciken sandwich for lunch with a vanilla shake, a strawberry banana smoothie on the way home from work and then sucked on vanilla candy all day cause I had a sore throat and bad pms. Anyway my hubby knew I was not feeling well and wnted to make me happy. After I got out of the shower he led me to the bed and proceeded to 'relax" me. After I had my orgasm (a very good one I might add) he looked up and said I never tasted sweeter!!!! He said it was like I had ice cream flowing with my cum. SO it does work. My hubby is very happy AND SO AM I!!! more oral for me WOOHOO.

  4. He is just someone I see from time to time around the neighborhood. I have NO intention of cheating or taking it ANYWHERE. It is just kind of fun ya know. Nice to be desired after 4 kids and "normal" all the time. I was just wondering if anyone else had been in this position. I mean I know guys look and flirt and it's "accepted". Wondering what women think/feel if there was a man looking and flirting at them.

  5. I worked at a resturant when i was younger and people had sex all over that place. It seems the norm for a food service setting.

    I had sex at a grocery store that I worked in when i was 17. That was FUN!!! The getting caught risk was huge since the store was open. We were in the office and the door was locked but we could have been interupted at any time. I am still not sure if there was camera in there............

  6. I am a Mom of 4 so I feel your pain right now. My suggestions are lots of sex with ejactulation inside you .The semen is what actually brings on the softening of the cervix. Also alot of nipple play...alone or by your hubby. ;) Nothing too rough but enough so that you make your nipples hard. Stimulating your nipples helps the body produce natural oxcytocin wich is what eventually brings on contractions. . Walking as much as you can. I know it's a bit painful at times but take your toddler for trips around the park now that iit is nice out. Relaxing is also good. Plenty of rest. Congrats and good luck!!!!!

  7. My husband and I have discussed it. He and I are both interested FFM but my rules from even the talking stage have been set down. It has to be a stranger and someone He or I would never see again. Plus the big one for me is she only touchs me and I only touch her. HE is only allowed to touch and be touched by ME and me only. So who knows maybe one day.....

  8. Thank you guys for the info. My husband is a light smoker and on those heavy smoker days I can really taste the difference in his cum. It is extremely bitter. Anything that improves it is a plus in my book.

    So next question if you add those fruits and sweet things to your daily diet will it have a continual effect or will it wear off??

  9. Ok so I always thought I knew where my Gspot was until TODAY!!! i got the "free" Gspot vibrator and well tried it and ummm the spot has vanished!!! I know I have stronger orgasms with clitoral stimulation but I always thought I was having them for "spot attention" too. How can I find the spot????

  10. I would also suggest that whomever is going to be the recipient of the anal play, try and go to the bathroom before hand. Maybe wait a few hours before engaging in anal play. I know you can't always "go" when you want, but I would try.

    Most likely, there will be some slight "residue" on whatever you use to insert up into your anus. That's normal. It's not like it gets coated with it (unless you haven't gone to the bathroom for a while) or anything.

    Remember, never "double-dip", aka put a toy, finger, or penis up in your anus, and then insert it vaginally, unless it's washed before it goes into the vagina, or the condom is removed from the toy. You don't want to get a bacterial infection.

    And, as always: USE LOTS OF LUBE!!

    Thank you guys. I am definatley interested. I have been reading, having fantasy's and watching some homemade anal porn online. I am turned on and would love to do this with my husband. We have been together over 10 years and neither of us has ever done it. The yuck factor is the ONLY thing stopping me. But from what you guys have said it does not seem like a big deal. I will have to plan ahead and see how it goies. I think I am going to go the enema (gross in itself, lol) route the first time until I get more comfortable then who knows. Thanks again and I will have to keep you posted.

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