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Well I have not had a TL but my husband has had a vasectomy. Pregnancy is not good for me. My body and pregnancy seem to battle and I have MAJOR complications. SO for us the safest thing was a vas for him. We have 2 children together and full custody of his daughter from a previous marriage. That being said I wanted one more child but was told it could risk my life. SO the choice was pretty much taken away from me...BUT the vasectomy was the BEST thing to do. it has made sex worry free. No more birthcontrol (i am also very fertile getting pg on the pill the first time and with one try the second). Worry freee sex anytime anywhere does a person good. So from teh standpiint of permanent birth control I say go for it....if you are 100% positive you are done with babies. PS-congrats on the new job!!!

Tyger you are the best!!! Funny thing is I have FOUR of those toys already!!!! I will have to try the ones I am missing. Thanks again!!

can u give me a quick likst of the strongest ones u have found and enjoy?? thanks.

Good for you on not going. Part of the fun of a fantasy is knowing when to leave it as just that, a fantasy.

Shiney and pink. Looks good to me!!!!

Ok so I am contemplating trying anal. I am interested but nervous. I have been watching some anal porn lately just to get an idea of what it would be like. Anyway my question is this....once you have anal how long does it take for your hole to go back to "normal". Some of these girls look like they have been stretched to the max and are never going to close up. Is that normal????

Just had to share a funny story with you Howard. I at a Cinnabon for breakfast today...had a chciken sandwich for lunch with a vanilla shake, a strawberry banana smoothie on the way home from work and then sucked on vanilla candy all day cause I had a sore throat and bad pms. Anyway my hubby knew I was not feeling well and wnted to make me happy. After I got out of the shower he led me to the bed and proceeded to 'relax" me. After I had my orgasm (a very good one I might add) he looked up and said I never tasted sweeter!!!! He said it was like I had ice cream flowing with my cum. SO it does work. My hubby is very happy AND SO AM I!!! more oral for me WOOHOO.

He is just someone I see from time to time around the neighborhood. I have NO intention of cheating or taking it ANYWHERE. It is just kind of fun ya know. Nice to be desired after 4 kids and "normal" all the time. I was just wondering if anyone else had been in this position. I mean I know guys look and flirt and it's "accepted". Wondering what women think/feel if there was a man looking and flirting at them.

Ok so has anyone ever had an intense physical attraction other then your spouse?? I mean I know it's wrong but I can't help it. I have never cheated on my husband and don't plan to. I feel guilty but I just can't help it. Opnions?????

I love reading the stories posted here. I would love some new ones also.

I worked at a resturant when i was younger and people had sex all over that place. It seems the norm for a food service setting. I had sex at a grocery store that I worked in when i was 17. That was FUN!!! The getting caught risk was huge since the store was open. We were in the office and the door was locked but we could have been interupted at any time. I am still not sure if there was camera in there............

I am a Mom of 4 so I feel your pain right now. My suggestions are lots of sex with ejactulation inside you .The semen is what actually brings on the softening of the cervix. Also alot of nipple play...alone or by your hubby. Nothing too rough but enough so that you make your nipples hard. Stimulating your nipples helps the body produce natural oxcytocin wich is what eventually brings on contractions. . Walking as much as you can. I know it's a bit painful at times but take your toddler for trips around the park now that iit is nice out. Relaxing is also good. Plenty of rest. Congrats and good luck!!!!!

I don't know if thats it or not. All it said was apply lube that increases sensitivity????

I just read a story that mentioned a lube that makes a guys penis more sensitive??? Anyone heard of it and do you sell it here?????? Does it work anyone who has tried it??

Thats great!!! I really enjoy the stories from "real" people.

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we will and I am sure it will be fabulous!!!

My husband and I have discussed it. He and I are both interested FFM but my rules from even the talking stage have been set down. It has to be a stranger and someone He or I would never see again. Plus the big one for me is she only touchs me and I only touch her. HE is only allowed to touch and be touched by ME and me only. So who knows maybe one day.....

What kind of vanilla things did she eat? Fruit I can eat forever but how does one incorporate vanilla on a regualr basis???

Thank you guys for the info. My husband is a light smoker and on those heavy smoker days I can really taste the difference in his cum. It is extremely bitter. Anything that improves it is a plus in my book. So next question if you add those fruits and sweet things to your daily diet will it have a continual effect or will it wear off??

Howard I read in one of your past posts that you used to have your wife eat sweet foods to make her vaginal taste better. What foods did you find worked best for sweetness? Does it work for men also?

I FOUND IT!! Thank you guys. I have a whole new bunch of playing to do now.

Ok so I always thought I knew where my Gspot was until TODAY!!! i got the "free" Gspot vibrator and well tried it and ummm the spot has vanished!!! I know I have stronger orgasms with clitoral stimulation but I always thought I was having them for "spot attention" too. How can I find the spot????

Hey guys. I am really enjoying reading your stories. Anyone have any new ones??

Thank you guys. I am definatley interested. I have been reading, having fantasy's and watching some homemade anal porn online. I am turned on and would love to do this with my husband. We have been together over 10 years and neither of us has ever done it. The yuck factor is the ONLY thing stopping me. But from what you guys have said it does not seem like a big deal. I will have to plan ahead and see how it goies. I think I am going to go the enema (gross in itself, lol) route the first time until I get more comfortable then who knows. Thanks again and I will have to keep you posted.