Sex with my husband is always extremely pleasureable. I always have a wonderful time but I dont think he is having as much fun as I am - not that he is not having fun, because he is, but not as much as I am because he is always thinking of new ways to make it more pleasereable for me I feel bad because I feel like he does all the work. I try to give him oral sex but he's realy big and can barely fit in my mouth and sometimes it hurts. Im not sure what else to do.