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Just to be more clear, the most important thing for me when having sex is pleasing her, I would much rather her have a great time and me feel nothing than the other way around. I would have no problem playing with her anally, but I think it would be kind of awkward if I just did, is there a good way to bring it up to the girl?

Another thing.... This girl told me she was vaginally raped when she was 10, at least 10 times by guys as many as 5 years older, including once being raped by 4 guys in a row. Well she has since told me that she lied about that after I talked to her (she said she honestly thought she was but 'couldnt tell' because she was 10 and 'it just hurt down there when they were doing something'), but she mantains she was raped anally by a single person at least 10 times, and this guy was 14 while she was 10. However anally she is really tight still. Should that be a red flag that she is lying? When she was 10 she was like 4' tall. Does the butthole become looser after anal sex? Sorry for my ignorance.

Sorry, maybe I worded it wrong. I still use condoms, even though lately she has told me to just not wear one and pull out. I still wear one and always have with this girl. Thanks for the info.

Some more questions.... Ive given a girl anal before, and it wasnt a challenge to fit it in or anything. Well ive tried with this girl, and shes about 5'1" 95 lbs. The first couple times we tried having vaginal sex I couldnt even get it in her, well I cant get in her anally now. Ive read that you should finger her or play with her there a little bit, but that makes me kind of uncomfortable, I would rather just put it in and go to work, I love foreplay but I just think it would be awkward playing with her butthole. Im very sexually experienced, and shes not at all. Im her first and we have probably banged like 10 times, while I probably have like 50 times before I met her. Condoms are also very uncomfortable on me. Sometimes the tip of the condom (thats supposed to fill with sperm) will like push itself down so that the top of my penis shapes into the tip. Its uncomfortable and really bothers me. EDIT: I have a normal shaped penis also.

Hi, I know I am young im only 18, but am sexually active. I was just wondering how large I am compared to other teenagers, im at least 6", and sometimes up to 7" when im really horny. Is that average or above? Another question, I had lost my virginity to a virgin, and during sex I would give her sometimes as many as 3 orgasms without any rubbing or anything, just going at it doggy style. Well im with this girl now that lost her virginity to me, and she hurts my confidence because she isnt as loud as the other girls. Shes the tightest girl I have ever been with, but she doesnt make much noise at all. Well recently she told me sh e was holding it in because she didnt want me to make fun of her making noises, and im not sure about that because we havent had sex since she told me. My favorite position is doggy style, but with this girl she tells me it does nothing for her, and me on top is much better. It also feels weird doggy style, I cant even go in her all the way, and if I push real hard and try it feels like im poking something inside her and hurts a little.