This is my first time posting anything like this, so I feel a little dirty. My husband and I have been married for only a few months. A few weeks ago he mentioned to me that he would like to try anal sex. I am not sure. I have talked to friends that have loved it, and I have also heard horror stories. I am kind of afraid of the pain that may be involved. -- I would like to know from you all, is there anything to be afraid of? -- Any serious pain involved? -- Are there any tricks to it? -- What kind of products would you recommend? -- Are there any serious risks (I am sure that you have all heard the urban myths)? And how do I get over these nerves? When/if I decide to fulfill this desire of my husband's I want it to be pleasurable for him. I dont want him to see me gritting my teeth expecting the worst... he wouldnt be able to enjoy himself. Thank you!