Lori

Lee, Thanks so much!! Your information is a great help and really puts things into better perspective for me. It is a wonderful feeling to be comfortable in life and sexuality. You can't hide from God and to feel shameful is no way to live. I am just so glad that I don't have to feel like I am turning my back on Him. Thank you so much for replying to my post and I will definitly look into all those suggested sites and share them with others who may be dealing with the same issues. Again, thank you so much, you helped more then you know!! Lori

I am torn between too worlds, being a Christian but loving sex. I am married and I just bought my first "real" sex toys. I had a few before but I always felt gulilty about using them and would end up getting rid of them along with a few adult videos I bought. I felt I wasn't living the lifestyle of a Christian. Last week I bought my toys wanting to bring the adventure back in to the bed room. My hormones finally taking over and my husband really seemed to enjoy it. Him, a wonderful Christian man would would have probably never brought the idea to me himself. Now I wanted to take it a bit further and got some adult movies on order. I told him I wanted to start watching porn with him now. The whole idea turns me on so much! What I am wondering is if this is a double standard life? I know you aren't a priest, I just want to know what your thoughts are on sex and religion. Is it wrong to have these lustful feelings? And if so, whats a girl to do! Anyone, add your advice, there are a lot of church going, crazy sex freaks out there I am sure!! Thanks!