I'm with Tyger here. It is VERY important that you wait. Even if you had a vaginal delivery without an episiotomy, there can be scratches and scrapes along your vaginal walls. They need time to heal. If you had a c-section, all of those layers inside need to heal. You can give him blowjobs,handjobs, whatever---but as far as your own "needs", they will have a chance to be satisfied... Congrats on the new baby!!!