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Thank you so much for that article it was very informative and thank you all for your advice, my husband says I should also tell you that it seems to happen more when I have something important to do the next day. Don't know if that adds anything to it or not but I thought I would add that. Thanks again for all you input.

Okay so I have this problem...well not really a problem but more of a...hmmm...I don't know what to call it...I'll just go ahead and tell ya'll what is going on. Somtimes at night my husband and I will have sex, and he says its the best sex, its always like dirty and rough, and sometimes he says I even ask for anal sex and that it is just extremely good but I don't remember it in the morning. He will wake me up and tell me how good I was last night and I have no clue what he is talking about. I can totally tell that I have had sex but I can't remember a thing. This has started in the past 2 years and it happens at least once a week...I know this sounds so weird but this is what i'm having to deal with and I'm wondering if I'm just some kind of crazy person or if there is something wrong with me that I maybe need to go see a doctor about. But he says I talk really dirty and I can almost never do that when I'm awake....or conscious or whatever...when i know what i'm doing. If anyone out there has heard of this can you tell me about what is wrong with me? I'm thinking maybe the things that I can't bring myself to do while I am awake my subconscience is doing while i'm asleep....does that make sense? I don't know but any input would be nice....

Well, I finally just got up the nerve to actually start a night of unbelievable sex with my husband Monday night.....and omgosh it was AMAZING. And since then, even though its only been 2 days we've had sex 5 times, this has totally renewed my interest in the act of making love to my husband. I took him to the bedroom , told him to lay down, tied his hands...and basically did what ever i wanted to to him. WOW....it was great..for both of us...I mean he came twice before I was finished with him that night...well Tuesday morning...but thank all of you for all of your input and suggestions, they've helped throughout the week....and I know its because I don't feel that I am as sexy as I was 6 years ago before I had 2 kids, so my self-esteem is really low...but I said what the heck...i'm gonna do this and I'm not gonna stop until he is satisfied....well he is and he said Thank you to everone that left suggestions....(he really APPRECIATES it...) Once again...thank you so much....

After being married almost 6 years and dating 10 you would think I would be over all of my shyness around my husband...but ummm....thats not the case. I am even more shy now than ever before. I'm not sure why, but I can't bring myself to try new things or even suggest any of those kinky little things I read about and would LOVE to try...even though he has no problem telling me all the things he wants us to do......I'm not sure what my problem is, but if any of you have any suggestions please give them I really want to make him HAPPY. And I also have trouble initiating the lovemaking and I know that is a big problem, because I don't want him to HAVE to do it everytime...I will be grateful for any suggestions.