Crystal

First of all thanks Howard for your advice and sorry it took me so long to get back here but I've been "busy". Things are so much better now, the passion is back and we both are extremely happy! There were a few things going on in my bf's life that contributed to keeping him form focusing on the whole relationship. And yes some of it was me but for the most part it was miscommunication and stress for family problems. We talked and worked out some things and WOW! I thought my fun love life was gone forever...again WOW! I can't tell you all how happy I am and not just sexually, thing between us are awesome and I see things I haven't seen for a long time. I am so deeply in love and I know he is too. P.S. I don't want anyone getting the wrong idea about our choice not to get married YET. We will get married, things just happend backwards for us.

I agree with Mikayla...beds are off limits. I have no problem having sex anywhere else (in a friends home) because I know my friends would (and have) do the same. I wouldn’t feel comfortable asking for permission, I think that would seem like you had it planned. There's something to be said about spontaneity, if it happens great if not oh well. Strangers are a little different, I guess it would depend on why I was at their home.

Hi shyvixen, we seem to have quite a bit in common. I too am a stay-at-home mom and I'm suffering from a stalled sex-life as well. It's nice to know I'm not the only one...I was getting pretty jealous of my friend's single sex-life. Hopefully you and I will both get our sex-lives back!!! I look forward to talking with you. GOOD LUCK

...I'm obviously new here, but I am far from shy about my sex-life. I'm here to share and also get advice. Mainly about my awesome sex-life that took a plunge after we had kids. Our biggest issue is that our kids are small and are sleepping in our room (in their own beds). My boyfriend doesn't seem as into sex as he use to, it is always rushed and there is no passion. HELP!! I'm up for quickies sometimes, but that's all our sex-life intails anymore. I know the kids cramp our style but there is time and places for our old sex-life. How do I get him to see that? By the way... Our sexual experiences when the kids are'nt home are great, but they still lack the passion we once had.